Making it "last"

[A Stone's Throw]

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[Melody_lane]

Hey there..and welcome.
I'm pretty sure you could find the answer to your question on the How To board..

 

[Lasher]

Not to change the subject here, but it seems like you've been online for almost 24 hours straight now, Melody.... Uhh...of course, I only notice this because I've spent most of the last 24 hrs online, too..... So I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with this.....

Nevermind.

 

[Melody_lane]

Ahh, but in those 24 hours I have accomplished so much.
I've showered, dressed, rode 10 miles on bike (while watching the sunrise; excellent experience), cleaned my room, went shopping, done laundry, played with my niece, ate dinner, had a nap...ranted and raved to online idiots, and enjoyed you.

What a God damn glorious day it's been!
Life is good.

[This message has been edited by melody_lane (edited 05-28-2000).]

 

[Lasher]

Ya know, except for the showering, bike riding, laundry, shopping, cleaning, playing with the niece, and accomplishing a lot parts...it sounds a lot like how I used to spend my time when I was doing drugs everyday.

But, I did catch the sunrise this morning thru the Cat room window (Umm...yes, our Cats have their own room).

Good to see your having fun, Melody.

 

[Gingersnap]

Go Lasher!! Go Lasher!! OMG Go Lasher!!!!!!

 

[Jade]

Originally posted by a stone's throw:

Just wondering if anyone out there has had this problem and knows a good solution... or at least has a way to feel like less of a sexual failure. Thanks for your replies in advance.

Hey, there are actually excercises (I just cannot spell tonight, but anyway) that you can do to practice lasting longer... I will search for the link of the how to's on that and e mail it to ya!

Welcome aboard sweetie!

~Jade

 

[Tawny T]

Hey, no one answered the question!

You like to give her several Big O's before. Have her give you one before intercourse, or try mutual masturbation first to orgasm, then have intercourse.

There are also some desensitizers that deaden the nerves of the glens a little. Go to a sex store for them.

 

[Jade]

Tawny T
where have you been!!?

~Jade

 

[Golden]

and then I get to pumping (like a good boy should), and it starts to feel SO DAMN GOOD and then...BAM! [unquote]

how I learned was - don't go at it pumping!

for a start, I think you'll find the GF will appreciate it if you take her slowly and agonisingly... My mother (no, don't ask ...) referred to it as being casseroled - done long and slow ... That way you can experiment with positions and angles where it is merely kinda nice for you and not uncontrollably orgasmic.

ALSO - you need to practice while masturbating ... get yourself to a point where you are about to cum and then stop, hold it, maybe change the pressure and angle and grip and stroke it again … you’ll find you can quickly learn to deflect orgasm and save it for later.

Actually, it isn't learned THAT quickly, and you are going to have a lot of very intense orgasms while you practice this! You will also probably find that if you get to the point of cumming and can then deflect and regroup several times, you will achieve something close to a tantric state - your eventual orgasm will be shattering.

 

[Golden]

yeah where you been Tawny T? One way for Stone's throw to really mess things up woiuld be to read your stories - they are top pants-creamers!