I need some advice. I have been thinking for some time now how it would feel to be dominated by my husband. I get really horny thinking about this. I have talked to my husband about this and he can't even spank me seriously. I have written stories about being dominated and have talked to him about this. He will talk about it, but I can't seem to get him to take any action. I think the problem is that my first husband was abusive and now the current hubby is afraid to be placed in the same catagory. Anytime he does anything even remotely aggresive I make sure to let him know that I like it and it makes me feel desireable.HELP?
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crazybbwgirl
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Maybe he dreams of being dominated too?
I know what you mean!
I am pretty much in the same boat. The only advice I can give you, is to keep asking for it. Have you tried silk or chiffony scarves tied around your wrists? Gives him something to "hang onto" during sex. I hope for the best for you. It will be interesting to find out what works!! Keep us posted, okay?
I am pretty much in the same boat. The only advice I can give you, is to keep asking for it. Have you tried silk or chiffony scarves tied around your wrists? Gives him something to "hang onto" during sex. I hope for the best for you. It will be interesting to find out what works!! Keep us posted, okay?
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If he doesnt wanna do it, nothing you can say do think or want is going to make it happen.
crazybbwgirl
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I did everything I could to entice my lover. He wasn't interested. He's more submissive than I am I think. I finally just went and found a Dom. Much easier! (and very satisfying)
He will tie me up if I ask him too and I think he likes it, but he does the same stuff that he does if I am not tied up so it's really just the same.One positive is that he just got a fire bullwhip. (We like to play with fire in a non sexual way) Anyway he has mentioned whipping me with it. He does have a friend who whips people and I told him he could as long as he worked with the other guy first so he could learn what the limits are. I don't know if he was joking or not, but I wasn't.
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Some Advice
I had a girlfriend once who fantasized about being raped. It actually turned me off at first. I couldn't imagine forcing myself unto an unwilling partner.
One time we were drunk and she told me how much it turned her on. I figured if that is what she wants...and planned something.
One night we were going to go out and I told her to dress up really sexy and have a glass of wine and I be home in a little while. I called her about 30 minutes later and told her I would be running about one hour late. She didn't know that I was calling from my cell phone outside the house.
I went through the garage and put a ski mask on. I snuck inside and house and saw her drinking her wine and looking really fine. Before she knew what was happening, I grabbed her and bend her over the dinging room table. I ripped her panties of and pulled her hair. This is the weird part, I started to get turned on because I could see how turned on she was.
I shoved my cock into in one move while covering her mouth with my hand. She was so wet, I couldn't believe it. I was turned on more than ever. I started playing the part and starting getting rought with her...not hitting, just holding tightly and pulling her hair. I did not want to say anything and blow it for her. I was more turned on than ever. She came all over me within three minutes, I wasn't far behind. I grabbed her by her hair and pushed her to her knees. I forced my cock down her throught and came and came. I keipt my dick in her mouth and made her lick up her juices. I then through her on the couch and ran out the door.
My whole point of the story is, I was willing to try something because I knew how bad she wanted it. I ended up loving it when the thought actually made me sick at first.
The funny thing is, she never told me about it, and I really want to do it again.
I had a girlfriend once who fantasized about being raped. It actually turned me off at first. I couldn't imagine forcing myself unto an unwilling partner.
One time we were drunk and she told me how much it turned her on. I figured if that is what she wants...and planned something.
One night we were going to go out and I told her to dress up really sexy and have a glass of wine and I be home in a little while. I called her about 30 minutes later and told her I would be running about one hour late. She didn't know that I was calling from my cell phone outside the house.
I went through the garage and put a ski mask on. I snuck inside and house and saw her drinking her wine and looking really fine. Before she knew what was happening, I grabbed her and bend her over the dinging room table. I ripped her panties of and pulled her hair. This is the weird part, I started to get turned on because I could see how turned on she was.
I shoved my cock into in one move while covering her mouth with my hand. She was so wet, I couldn't believe it. I was turned on more than ever. I started playing the part and starting getting rought with her...not hitting, just holding tightly and pulling her hair. I did not want to say anything and blow it for her. I was more turned on than ever. She came all over me within three minutes, I wasn't far behind. I grabbed her by her hair and pushed her to her knees. I forced my cock down her throught and came and came. I keipt my dick in her mouth and made her lick up her juices. I then through her on the couch and ran out the door.
My whole point of the story is, I was willing to try something because I knew how bad she wanted it. I ended up loving it when the thought actually made me sick at first.
The funny thing is, she never told me about it, and I really want to do it again.
I worked with a guy whose meek wife became ravenous for highly charged, dramatic sex...He wonderewd if he could continuie to satisfy her...and he was a very physical/atheletic guy...a marine too.
So one night after working his usual shift, he parked a block away from home. He skulked and peeked into the windows to see his wife looking very sexy as she laid on the bed watching television.
He climbed atop the roof to access an upper window and entered secretly......he crept down the hall...the image of his vulnerable wife beckoning him...he burst in on her while wearing a ski mask...
The marine housing police burst in through the front and rear doors...raced through the house to see him standing in front of his wife with his cock down her throat....they threw him to the ground in a very rough manner.....
They seperated them with her going to the hospital for an exam...he was not allowed to dress and had to sit for hours on the floor in the brig..while people walked past....Many hours later, after waking his commanding officer and etc...they let him return to his house.
When he explained to me about the incident, I couldn't help but laugh and laugh...he was still chagrinned two years after it had happened....I asked what her reaction had been.....In a amall voice he looked at the floor and said "She fucking loved it"...
So one night after working his usual shift, he parked a block away from home. He skulked and peeked into the windows to see his wife looking very sexy as she laid on the bed watching television.
He climbed atop the roof to access an upper window and entered secretly......he crept down the hall...the image of his vulnerable wife beckoning him...he burst in on her while wearing a ski mask...
The marine housing police burst in through the front and rear doors...raced through the house to see him standing in front of his wife with his cock down her throat....they threw him to the ground in a very rough manner.....
They seperated them with her going to the hospital for an exam...he was not allowed to dress and had to sit for hours on the floor in the brig..while people walked past....Many hours later, after waking his commanding officer and etc...they let him return to his house.
When he explained to me about the incident, I couldn't help but laugh and laugh...he was still chagrinned two years after it had happened....I asked what her reaction had been.....In a amall voice he looked at the floor and said "She fucking loved it"...
There is a form of real time in person roleplaying that I have done which may help you explore the fantasy without so much risk of personal revulsion or some of the physical risk. Two trusting partners find a common fantasy scenerio that they can each find something to enjoy. You verbalize the situations with each providing a verbal description as they see fit. Basically your painting a mental picture in each persons head while also having the sexual contact but maybe not as agressive or involving the same risk. Let your imaginations guide you and your bodies feel the pleasures. Your limits expand greatly since you each know that is a fantasy and not necessarily who you really are. Its like dirtytalk but much more. Not like a porn movie all scripted out but more like a slide show where you each put your own vision of you in the picture.
We had the most awsome experiences this way both mentally and phyisically. If you get turned on reading erotic stories than you should be able to do this. If you masterbate or cum when you think a certain thought than you can do this. If your turned on by your partners thoughts and reactions than you can do this. Great sex is between our ears and not our legs and if you dont understand thay than wait until you do and try this.
Any scenerio is possible. Dom/sub, groups, fetishes, voyerism it doesnt matter since the actual scenerio is in your mind and the only real characters that matter anyway are you and your partner.
We had the most awsome experiences this way both mentally and phyisically. If you get turned on reading erotic stories than you should be able to do this. If you masterbate or cum when you think a certain thought than you can do this. If your turned on by your partners thoughts and reactions than you can do this. Great sex is between our ears and not our legs and if you dont understand thay than wait until you do and try this.
Any scenerio is possible. Dom/sub, groups, fetishes, voyerism it doesnt matter since the actual scenerio is in your mind and the only real characters that matter anyway are you and your partner.
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