Making a twosome into a threesome?

[Guest]

My girl and I have been talking about threesomes a great deal lately. We are also interested in going to sex parties (where ever they might actually be), but we are having some serious problems finding out the where's and the who's. What's the best way to go about finding a willing female or like-minded couple? She we just wait to meet that person by chance in our daily lives? Do personals really work? Is there a better way to make sure that the willing participants are truly "clean"? Or is it as complex as we think it is, and thus, not really worth the effort?

 

[BlueVelvet]

Some advice from a newbie threesome seeker..... I am also searching for a woman to have an experience with..not necessarily a threesome. But to have my b/f watch me as I please a woman and have her please me.

My suggestions...go to adultfriendfinder.com I have had some luck there..many choices but still have had no luck finding anyone. I did find one girl..but she lost interest or backed out..not sure which one. So I am off to find another!!!!!!!!!

Also, if she has any friends that she feels comfy with that you think she may want to try with.....all you can do is ask. I have one but she isn't someone I can picture myself with..although it may come to that if I dont' find someone soon.

I really can't say much more as I am new at this also.

I definitely can say take your time...the right person will come along.

 

[Chicklet]

I have to insert that the last threesome I had was the worst experience of my life. Seeing my boyfriend with another woman was not at all what I had expected - keep this in mind as going towards that goal.

Adultfriendfinder.com is pretty cool, and free, and when I used it on a lark I got tons of responses. That was years ago, though

If you're kinky, their sister site alt.com is nifty too.

In my home town we have a lot of personal ads looking for third parties, which could also be good for you. At least that way you know they're local. Maybe look into placing an ad.

Good Luck!
Chicklet

 

[Guest]

My girl and I have been talking about threesomes a great deal lately. We are also interested in going to sex parties (where ever they might actually be), but we are having some serious problems finding out the where's and the who's. What's the best way to go about finding a willing female or like-minded couple?

Believe it or not, but the net is a great place to meet like minded individuals. AOL is my ISP, and I use the Yahoo world a lot. I have met many locals in real life from the net...many locals who are similar to me.

Not knowing your age or location, I won't be able to help you much, but places like Adult Friend Finders and Alt.com should be good starts. (If you don't mind paying for personals...)

Also, many larger cities have chat rooms and E-groups at Yahoo designed specifically for locals. Good luck in your search.

 

[voyergirl]

i have been very close to achieving this a close friend of mine whom i used to talk sex with all the time is my goal. i have gotten to touch her and even suck her titties(sharing them with my hubby was the best). anyway she got cold feet and ended up watching my husband and i go at it and she loved it. i know she is interested in doing him, but she is worried that it may ruin our friendship.(?????) this is something we will figure out as the time goes on.

i actually wish i had the guts to get a stranger instead of a friend, but like someone had said finding someone safe is very important!!!

 

[schatz]

I can't say whether the effort is worth it or not. My wife and I have also considered a three way but have not done anything about it yet. I like it as a fantasy but am not sure how I would reaczt to seeing her with another man/woman or how I would react if I met up with the person again. If you do go ahead with it I'd be interested in hearing about how it went since I have many of the same concerns.