Make it stop.

[Ekserb]

I don't visit this site every day. In fact, I will often go weeks or months without ever taking a peek. Sadly, when I do drop in to see what's new, I'm quickly reminded of why it's been so long: The utter stupidity and lack of imagination of the many, many men who are trying their best to win the hearts (or is it just the vaginas?) of the very few women members.

Jesus fucking Christ. Have you guys no dignity at all? Not every shared photo is "stunning." Not every woman is "beautiful inside and out." Not every three-sentence conversation is the beginning of a romance.

Get. A. Life.

To make it easy for you to signal your outrage and virtue, please choose from the following suggested responses (no need to breathlessly bang out a reply that will no doubt be filled with spelling and typographical errors):

A. "Fuck you. You don't know anything."

B. "Sounds like sour grapes to me. Maybe you're just upset because none of these gorgeous women will give you the time of day."

C. "Whom does it hurt for me to say whatever I want to someone brave enough to post naked photos of herself on the site?"

D. "It's all just for fun. Lighten up, dude."

E. All of the above.

(Is there a bookie who will give me odds on the number of Es I see after this post? So predictable.)

 

[7inchglory]

I don't visit this site every day. In fact, I will often go weeks or months without ever taking a peek. Sadly, when I do drop in to see what's new, I'm quickly reminded of why it's been so long: The utter stupidity and lack of imagination of the many, many men who are trying their best to win the hearts (or is it just the vaginas?) of the very few women members.

Jesus fucking Christ. Have you guys no dignity at all? Not every shared photo is "stunning." Not every woman is "beautiful inside and out." Not every three-sentence conversation is the beginning of a romance.

Get. A. Life.

To make it easy for you to signal your outrage and virtue, please choose from the following suggested responses (no need to breathlessly bang out a reply that will no doubt be filled with spelling and typographical errors):

A. "Fuck you. You don't know anything."

B. "Sounds like sour grapes to me. Maybe you're just upset because none of these gorgeous women will give you the time of day."

C. "Whom does it hurt for me to say whatever I want to someone brave enough to post naked photos of herself on the site?"

D. "It's all just for fun. Lighten up, dude."

E. All of the above.

(Is there a bookie who will give me odds on the number of Es I see after this post? So predictable.)

I'm curious... Do you really think your thoughts will change much on this site? Why does someone else's response bother you so much? Can't you just sift through all the responses?

I feel like those basic responses are an easy way for men with articulate responses to stick out, so I welcome them. At the end of the day writing is an art form, and not everyone will be good at it...

 

[Orchidea73]

The utter stupidity and lack of imagination of the many, many men who are trying their best to win the hearts (or is it just the vaginas?) of the very few women members.

Just the virtual vagina.

 

[ShaneoD]

Just the virtual vagina.

That has to be annoying, the internet must be a magnet for guys that can't talk to women in real life and think they can just project their feelings as to what they are onto a picture or profile without having a clue about the complicated human being behind it.

 

[Orchidea73]

That has to be annoying, the internet must be a magnet for guys that can't talk to women in real life and think they can just project their feelings as to what they are onto a picture or profile without having a clue about the complicated human being behind it.

Honestly, I haven't head any bad experience here, so far.

But as for anyone trying to win my heart or my mind? That's not even an option. Not for me anyway. I can't speak for everybody.

 

[ShaneoD]

It's great to see someone comfortable in their own skin.

 

[ericalauren]

It's always about the vaginas, ekserb.