TheIntrepidBoyager
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- Jul 20, 2025
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Does anyone else practice what I call maintenance spankings? Meaning, a few spankings, with or without device, just as a sort of periodic attitude adjustment I guess you could say.
Like so many of us involved in this lifestyle, my wife (Mistress) is not always into engaging in active D/s. Life is life and we're getting older - she's in her sixties.
But I'm needy. It can be seen as a shortcoming but also as a plus. She can get annoyed if I get overly needy but at the same time she loves, and leverages, it. She uses it to manipulate me in all the right ways. She used to really push back against it and shut down but she's learned that it is just a part of who I am as a submissive. I'm an outwardly alpha, strong personality. A carefully crafted persona forged in the fires of extremely difficult circumstances. But she knows, and can tap into, what lies within and I treasure it. I need it. It changes me.
So, there has to be some balance and maintenance spankings seem to satisfy us both. Tonight is a good example. We've been having a great time together for the past couple days and I was really wanting to keep it going tonight. She'd made some comments yesterday that led me to believe there would be play time tonight but as the day progressed, I grew increasingly doubtful of anything happening.
Admittedly, my demeanor changed. At one point she passed by me and said, "Stop pouting." and continued on. She was right. I was trying not to but I was.
A while later she called me over to her and with a flick of her hand she motioned for me to pull down my underwear. She gave my thigh a quick scratch with her oh-so-sharp nail and then instructed me to turn around. I did as I was told and soon felt the sharp stinging bites of a paddle on my ass. Just a few smacks on each cheek and then her feeling the warmth. The whole thing probably lasted less than two minutes.
But it completely changed my attitude. This isn't really a conscious thing. It just happens. That little bit just completely alters my behavior and I was bubbly and smiling in no time. It happened just about an hour ago and I'm still in a calm, good mood.
It's always like that. And she says it does the same for her. It's like a level-set.
Surely. I'm not alone in this right?
Like so many of us involved in this lifestyle, my wife (Mistress) is not always into engaging in active D/s. Life is life and we're getting older - she's in her sixties.
But I'm needy. It can be seen as a shortcoming but also as a plus. She can get annoyed if I get overly needy but at the same time she loves, and leverages, it. She uses it to manipulate me in all the right ways. She used to really push back against it and shut down but she's learned that it is just a part of who I am as a submissive. I'm an outwardly alpha, strong personality. A carefully crafted persona forged in the fires of extremely difficult circumstances. But she knows, and can tap into, what lies within and I treasure it. I need it. It changes me.
So, there has to be some balance and maintenance spankings seem to satisfy us both. Tonight is a good example. We've been having a great time together for the past couple days and I was really wanting to keep it going tonight. She'd made some comments yesterday that led me to believe there would be play time tonight but as the day progressed, I grew increasingly doubtful of anything happening.
Admittedly, my demeanor changed. At one point she passed by me and said, "Stop pouting." and continued on. She was right. I was trying not to but I was.
A while later she called me over to her and with a flick of her hand she motioned for me to pull down my underwear. She gave my thigh a quick scratch with her oh-so-sharp nail and then instructed me to turn around. I did as I was told and soon felt the sharp stinging bites of a paddle on my ass. Just a few smacks on each cheek and then her feeling the warmth. The whole thing probably lasted less than two minutes.
But it completely changed my attitude. This isn't really a conscious thing. It just happens. That little bit just completely alters my behavior and I was bubbly and smiling in no time. It happened just about an hour ago and I'm still in a calm, good mood.
It's always like that. And she says it does the same for her. It's like a level-set.
Surely. I'm not alone in this right?
