maintaining an erection with pills?

[sknight_88]

hi all

I am new on this forum and would like to share my issue with hope that you all can advise.

I am a 35 male and have been in a relationship with her for 5 years and will be married soon. We used to have real hot and passionate sex where we could do it 4 times a night. But as times goes by, I was having early ejeculation and now problem maintaining an erection though my mind wants it and it is really frustrating.

I have resorted to some male enhancement pill which did help. But I do not want to keep relying on it.

Could this be mental issue or? Hope you can advise me.

Thanks

 

[SweetErika]

Do you have similar problems when your masturbating?

If not, it's mental.

Can you pinpoint when these problems started? Did it happen gradually, or could it be linked to something like a stressful event in your life?

How long have you been engaged? Did the problems start before you got engaged/started talking about getting married seriously?

Besides the pills, what else have you tried? Have your read up on premature ejaculation and difficulty maintaining an erection? If so, have you tried what those articles suggest (they should be things that don't require buying anything, like pills, creams or devices)?

 

[sknight_88]

I do not have an issue during masturbation. It all started when I was afraid of her as she did not want me to even go down on her. So our sex was getting bored n I was getting lots of scoldings. So soon I had this erection issue.

Now we have sorted things out, the erection problem was still there till I took the pills which did help. I also read that drinking promegranet juice is good.

Do you have any website that u mention I can go to for reference?

I used to be a really hot guy who needs it twice a day but now with this issue I am afraid.

Thanks SweetErika for your reply

 

[The Gimp]

With the exception of the erection issue how would you describe your relationship? If in the not too distant past she wouldn't let you go down on her then I suspect that she doesn't enjoy sex as much as she goes through the motions to keep you from complaining.
If that's the case then you don't have a mechanical issue with maintaining an erection that can be fixed with a pill, you have a compatibility issue with your girlfriend that needs to be resolved outside of the bedroom. Once she is happy spending time with you and you are happy spending time with her then there will be no problems maintaining an erection.

 

[SweetErika]

Here's a good article on PE. There's a link to Erectile Dysfunction in the upper right hand corner: http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00578.html

If you google premature ejaculation and difficulty maintaining erection, you should find lots of good, unbiased info on both problems. You should be looking for solutions to the psychological causes of both and things you can do at home and/or with a therapist, rather than medical treatments, pills or devices. Avoid sites that are trying to sell you things.

While you'll need to work through your problems on your own, with your gf, and perhaps even with a therapist, you could potentially look into safe, inexpensive sexual-support supplements, like L-Arginine while you're working through your mental and relationship issues. Don't look at any pills as a cure or necessary component of a healthy sex life; do view them as a temporary way to support your sexual health while you're working on your mental health. You don't want to come to rely on the pills or use them in favor of ignoring the real problems, so you might allow yourself to take a supplement for a month or two, then force yourself to taper your usage off over time.

Don't get married until/unless you've worked out your problems and have had a good (pill-free) sex life for a good amount of time. You don't want to end up in one of the many 'Sexually Unfulfilled' threads because you rushed into marriage with unresolved issues and/or aren't truly sexually compatible with your partner long-term.

 

[Mansa Musa]

L-arginine works. I'm back to three good erections a night. Now, I just need a willing partner.

 

[most_curious]

L-arginine works. I'm back to three good erections a night. Now, I just need a willing partner.

aww mansa musa i'll be a willing partner