lonely_hubby60
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mail companionship to fill voids
[I have decided to re-start my Lit exchanges with a clean slate. My previous attempts to express what I desire deep down inside me, never really came out accurately enough]
I am a man seriously looking for companionship with the right woman for me. I am married; that's why I am looking for mail companionship only. I am counting on mails between you and me filling the voids in my marital life, perhaps they will do the same for your relationship as well.
I figure our mails will arouse one another, but most likely we won't limit them to mutual arousal only. Certainly self-made orgasms come out more fantastic with our "head cinemas" filled up by thoughts we have of each other, including lots of fantasies, but I suspect we'll want to exchange other stuff in addition to horny visions. Because something even more important than arousal is a feeling of being liked and wanted. An outcome of making love with each other virtually, I hope.
Perhaps you tick like me and you don't only like to get something out of an on-line relationship, but you crave giving just as much. And if you enjoy sharing part of your life with me – stuff you don't want your friends to know, for instance – I will do the same in the other direction.
And should you enjoy it, when our mail exchanges wander off in the direction of intellectual intercourse occasionally, all the better for both of us.
Void filling – so I find – can serve rather useful functions for people in relationships less than ideal. If it is done right. I have enjoyed mail companionship before, albeit for shorter times than I would have liked. Something or other always got in the way of eternal happiness with a mail companion.
Naturally I have formed some ideas by now, for why mail relationships don't last forever, and which obstacles can develop. If you and I start getting to know one another, I'll share those with you. Maybe we can manage to put out of the way one or the other "stumbling blocks", so our mail flow won't need to end prematurely.
Of course whether it does or not, will depend on how well we resonate with each other. Impossible to estimate beforehand, whether we will or not. We'll just have to see, what develops (or not) between ourselves. I am a rather open-minded person, with an enormous amount of curiosity, for instance. And whether what I say is politically correct or not, or "diplomatic" enough, is something I hardly pay much attention to.
Should it be difficult for you, to get along with such people, you and I will most likely not hit it off well with one another.
Have you become curious by now for sending me a PM? If so, I expect you to write more than "I found your ad intriguing". Because that may sound nice, but it says absolutely nothing. And I don't want to hear nothing from a woman I have told half of my life story to already.
PS: One more thing will determine, whether we get along with our mailings or not: the degree by which both of us look for something positive in each other's words.
PPS: In case you want to know about my previous Lit exchanges, just ask me.
[I have decided to re-start my Lit exchanges with a clean slate. My previous attempts to express what I desire deep down inside me, never really came out accurately enough]
I am a man seriously looking for companionship with the right woman for me. I am married; that's why I am looking for mail companionship only. I am counting on mails between you and me filling the voids in my marital life, perhaps they will do the same for your relationship as well.
I figure our mails will arouse one another, but most likely we won't limit them to mutual arousal only. Certainly self-made orgasms come out more fantastic with our "head cinemas" filled up by thoughts we have of each other, including lots of fantasies, but I suspect we'll want to exchange other stuff in addition to horny visions. Because something even more important than arousal is a feeling of being liked and wanted. An outcome of making love with each other virtually, I hope.
Perhaps you tick like me and you don't only like to get something out of an on-line relationship, but you crave giving just as much. And if you enjoy sharing part of your life with me – stuff you don't want your friends to know, for instance – I will do the same in the other direction.
And should you enjoy it, when our mail exchanges wander off in the direction of intellectual intercourse occasionally, all the better for both of us.
Void filling – so I find – can serve rather useful functions for people in relationships less than ideal. If it is done right. I have enjoyed mail companionship before, albeit for shorter times than I would have liked. Something or other always got in the way of eternal happiness with a mail companion.
Naturally I have formed some ideas by now, for why mail relationships don't last forever, and which obstacles can develop. If you and I start getting to know one another, I'll share those with you. Maybe we can manage to put out of the way one or the other "stumbling blocks", so our mail flow won't need to end prematurely.
Of course whether it does or not, will depend on how well we resonate with each other. Impossible to estimate beforehand, whether we will or not. We'll just have to see, what develops (or not) between ourselves. I am a rather open-minded person, with an enormous amount of curiosity, for instance. And whether what I say is politically correct or not, or "diplomatic" enough, is something I hardly pay much attention to.
Should it be difficult for you, to get along with such people, you and I will most likely not hit it off well with one another.
Have you become curious by now for sending me a PM? If so, I expect you to write more than "I found your ad intriguing". Because that may sound nice, but it says absolutely nothing. And I don't want to hear nothing from a woman I have told half of my life story to already.
PS: One more thing will determine, whether we get along with our mailings or not: the degree by which both of us look for something positive in each other's words.
PPS: In case you want to know about my previous Lit exchanges, just ask me.
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