Mae needs our support

[Sabineteas]

Look people. Instead of ranting on so many different threads about what was done to Mae, we need to let her know that we love her, care about her, and want the best for her.

I think, if you have not done so already, you need to PM or email her and let this whole thing on the boards die out. Our ranting and raving here will not do a bit of good. I saw Zoekat mention something in a thread about a man doing harm to a woman, either physically or anyother way that he can. This is what I am most fearful of for Mae and our harping won't change that.

But, a loving heartfelt message to Mae will make a difference in her life right now.

I am sure that many of you have contacted her as I did. If you haven't and care for her do so now.

 

[Cotedebeaune]

For Mae's sake

I agree Sabine, she would want us all back in the groove (What a lovely thought) and enjoying her favourite site again as hard as it may be without her.

 

[hornygirl]

Look people. Instead of ranting on so many different threads about what was done to Mae, we need to let her know that we love her, care about her, and want the best for her.

I think, if you have not done so already, you need to PM or email her and let this whole thing on the boards die out. Our ranting and raving here will not do a bit of good. I saw Zoekat mention something in a thread about a man doing harm to a woman, either physically or anyother way that he can. This is what I am most fearful of for Mae and our harping won't change that.

But, a loving heartfelt message to Mae will make a difference in her life right now.

I am sure that many of you have contacted her as I did. If you haven't and care for her do so now.

I apologize, but I havent had much chance to check out the boards lately (except to post a few things and have some unregistered jerk be rude and nasty to me)...what has happened to Mae, and what can I do to help?????

 

[Sabineteas]

Re: Re: Mae needs our support

I apologize, but I havent had much chance to check out the boards lately (except to post a few things and have some unregistered jerk be rude and nasty to me)...what has happened to Mae, and what can I do to help?????

i sent a PM to you.....if I did not make it clear, please let me know.

 

[Cotedebeaune]

Re: For Mae's sake

I agree Sabine, she would want us all back in the groove (What a lovely thought) and enjoying her favourite site again as hard as it may be without her.

You make it hard for me anyway

 

[Guest]

what happened?

 

[Starfish]

Unregistered, it is a bit hard to explain, because what happend has been somewhat deleted from the board.

Let's just say that Mae's personal information was posted on the board, by a thoughtless person who thought they knew her, thus making her prescence here hard for her to keep due to the nature of her profession.

 

[bluespoke]

Sabine

Yesterday I was in a rage and started the thread 'xafboyis a .....'. The rage has somewhat subsided and I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments. I tried to edit my thread but either the system wouldn't let me or I was being particularly dense. I have, therefore asked Laurel to delete the thread completely.

As usual it always best to think several times before taking a course of action. First instincts are not always the best. Sorry.

 

[Guest]

I haven't postedtoo much here, being mostly new, but it was Mae that captured my complete attention and made me keep coming back (not that anyone else would dissuade me). I happened on the night she was trying to do what she had to do and now I can't look at her side profile without seeing tears brimming in her eyes. I offered my sorrows to her as best as I clumsily could and I already feel as though much of the heart of this site has been ripped away. To be privy to such beauty, even if for only a little while, has left me spoiled and I so deperately want to see this board continue with all of its strenght. Even though it's only been a couple of nights, I already miss her desperately.

 

[Phenotek]

Im not a big poster anymore, I kinda know whats she is going through..........by trade im a psychologist.......well in 6 days i am hehe....and im a caring person .......i want to help.....i really do...what has happened here is so bad and so wrong....this place was supposed to be fun for us all.....if i can help in anyway please please let me know.......

 

[Sabineteas]

Sabine

Yesterday I was in a rage and started the thread 'xafboyis a .....'. The rage has somewhat subsided and I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments. I tried to edit my thread but either the system wouldn't let me or I was being particularly dense. I have, therefore asked Laurel to delete the thread completely.

As usual it always best to think several times before taking a course of action. First instincts are not always the best. Sorry.

Rage and comments meant from the heart are not bad. It is just the continual bringing it back to the surface that is not the best thing to do. That helps no one.

Bluespoke, I know what you said came from your heart. Do not apologize for that.

Just realize that it does not really help the person who needs help the most. And that is our Mae. Each time I see her eyes on her last thread I cry because I can feel her pain.

 

[bluespoke]

Sabine

I hope you notice that the thread has gone. I am not immune to pain. Sadly, I also not immune to rage, for which I apologise unreservedly.

I am, however, absolutely delighted to see Mae reiterating that she is not going away.

The sun may be hidden but its light shines through.

 

[Cotedebeaune]

Sabine

the talent here is multifarious....and you lend more than just wit and beauty

 

[Sabineteas]

Thank you

I appreciate what you said to me....I am just another person, who felt pain and wanted to do or say something that maybe would be helpful.

I did nothing special. I just felt for a lady who I think very much of and if the little I gave helped her, then I am happy.

 

[Cotedebeaune]

Kind thoughts precious lady

 

[Cornholio_1968]

You have my support

Whatever happened to Mae she had my full support...

 

[Cotedebeaune]

Re: Thank you

I appreciate what you said to me....I am just another person, who felt pain and wanted to do or say something that maybe would be helpful.

I did nothing special. I just felt for a lady who I think very much of and if the little I gave helped her, then I am happy.

With due respect and acknowledgement of your talents your contribution has more relevance than our "bloke"- like expressions no matter how genuine they may be.

 

[ZoeKat]

ok..Ms.Hyde is hiding again..good thread sabine

Sabine

Yesterday I was in a rage and started the thread 'xafboyis a .....'. The rage has somewhat subsided and I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments. I tried to edit my thread but either the system wouldn't let me or I was being particularly dense. I have, therefore asked Laurel to delete the thread completely.

As usual it always best to think several times before taking a course of action. First instincts are not always the best. Sorry.

**hangs head, looks embarrassed**
..hey me too blue...**sheathing claws, putting fillet knife away** trying to look rational..LOL
err i did mention before somewhere that i'm a social retard and just a Leetle intense, i think i did
your response, sabines and starfish's made me smile and calm down, thanks.

xafboy...sorry, you made me very, very angry..
but i was prolly ascribing motives to you that weren't there..and over-reacted a little bit...
i was "projecting"..
i had an incident in the past, so-called "friend"..who i expalined *gently* to that i didn't want him sexually,
sent copies of a catalogue from a good freinds exhibition to my then place of work, which was/is very conservative,
now my good freinds art is very beautifull and i'm not ashamed of being the focus/muse for some of the pieces..
however my employers did not feel the same way.
This"person" also sent copies to porn sites, yes i was VERY insulted as was the artist..they where not of the caliber of lit
and the artist's permission was not saught, nor was he credited..but MY name and phone no was on them, as was my face, lovely hmmm**dripping sarcasm**

so anyway
i think we both need to learn a little subtlety, don't you?


Mae - **bounce**..i'm so glad you didn't take down your "windows" and that you're staying**happy shimmy**
**BIG HUGGS**

 

[on_the_verge]

Just noticed...

For some reason the posted pictures have become links. I am not sure if this is to address bandwidth issues or that is a new policy in action. I can understand why Mae is choosing her decisions and the way she feels. Yet, we all must accept the price of sharing and "exposing" our inner selves. It is just a shame that others destroy what the cannot have or feel that their actions are justifiable and carries meaning. Respect is the key operative and unfortunately, it is loss due to other callous acts.

I also fear that people in my lives may come across my posts and endeavors, but I do not fear what I choose to post and accept the consequences for them. I think that is why we show a cautious eye to it all and feel that we can be "safe" and be able to express and share with others. Sadly, we live in a world that is not as forgiving.

I wish all that we can find a medium to share and be a part of others' lives visually, but we also must recognize that there will be others who are selfish and cruel to their own devices. I will continue to post and scrutinize what I share, but I also want others to know that to the trusting and willing, I will be there for them, otherwise, screw all you people who think you can be paramount over your ability to control and hurt–to shatter and afflict the very people who are sharing and caring of others. Shall I just say, your only way of getting anywhere is to be nowhere!