lubes

[vdub99]

me and my girl r just starting to experiment with anal sex. we r new to it and interested. we were woundering if there is a good lube that works well for both types of sex? and is there any advise any one has for us with anal play. any responses would be helpful.

 

[wicked woman]

Check out the Blank Manual at the top of this forum...under Physical...then Anal. Trust me there is more reading there than you'll need. This is one of the most popular 'how to' topics there is...


btw welcome to Lit and enjoy

 

[car nut]

ID glide, works for everything. I always get the biggest light blue bottle, what the heck are the other colors all about????? Stuffs awesome though!!!!

 

[mystic_maiden32]

ID glide, works for everything. I always get the biggest light blue bottle, what the heck are the other colors all about????? Stuffs awesome though!!!!

so it matches your bedroom? LOL!

 

[Etoile]

I personally don't like I.D. because of the taste, but that's me. My absolute favorite is Astroglide, which is odorless and tasteless. It's slightly more watery than I.D. or Wet, so it may need a bit more application, but there's nothing wrong with adding more lube! (No such thing as too much!)

 

[Vixandra]

When you think there's too much lube- add a dolop more and its the right amount.
Me- the easiest thing to get here is the KY liquid, so we use that. Never sure what's in the Japanese lubes... have got to learn to read Kanji one of these days, lol.

 

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[MM143]

Astroglide is nice. But Vaseline worked quite well the other night. It was more fun than I had thought it would be!!

 

[Etoile]

Astroglide is nice. But Vaseline worked quite well the other night. It was more fun than I had thought it would be!!

Ack, no no no!

Vaseline is not a good lube. It breaks down condoms.

 

[MM143]

Yikes! I didn't know that...Thanks for telling me. It's something new for us. But fun.

 

[Etoile]

Yep. Definitely get something like KY or Astroglide. They're usually in drugstores near the condoms. Even if you like Vaseline, give Astroglide or another water based lube a try. You might like it even better.

 

[vdub99]

what is the difference between anal lube and reg. lube. i see them in sex stores but no gclue what the difference is. can some one fill me in and is it worth it to get anal lube.

 

[Etoile]

what is the difference between anal lube and reg. lube. i see them in sex stores but no gclue what the difference is. can some one fill me in and is it worth it to get anal lube.

You're probably referring to products like Anal Eze, which is a lubricant that also contains a numbing agent. Basically it desensitizes the area where it's applied. Not so much fun for the pussy, but a lot of people claim it helps them get through the pain of anal sex. (Personally, I think it's psychological. They trust that the product is going to help ease the pain, so they are more relaxed. Then again, I haven't tried the stuff, though I've had plenty of anal sex.)

Is it worth it? Well, that's up to you and the owner of the ass you want to fuck. I think it's more rewarding to relax on your own rather than tricking the body into accepting something it might not be ready for. But if you just want to go to town, then maybe it's the thing for you. Otherwise, regular lube works just fine. (And is highly recommended, as the ass doesn't lubricate itself like the vagina does.)

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Okay. He and I just discovered the BEST lube for anal.. and everything else, for that matter.

It's called Slippery Stuff, and it's a gel. A large-ish bottle costs about $20 Canadian, and seriously.. it's amazing stuff.

And tips for anal.. I recommend searching the board for threads on anal (they're here in spades).. but my quick tip is go slow, use lots of lube, and start small (fingers) and work your way bigger (penis). Toys can be used in between to help with slow stretching.

 

[vdub99]

lube

ne one else have some good ideas for easing into this, i want to and she is not too sure what else can i do to see if she will like it

 

[SweetDevil1977]

the best advice i can give ya is to let her be on top for the first few times...she can control the motion and relax easier without fear of you getting to excited about the whole deal....then when she is ready you can try other positions...and i vote for the astroglide...shit works wonders

 

[mystic_maiden32]

I agree that Astroglide is the best-but in a pinch Olive Oil works great!

 

[Vixandra]

I agree that Astroglide is the best-but in a pinch Olive Oil works great!

Et tu, mytic?
Olive Oil= roman trick

Moving along- have her read a few threads about anal. Its not as scary as many think it is, but some find it to be a very emotional experiance. Not completely sure why but it is, least for me anyway.
There was a good one a bit back on the emotional effects of anal sex on women.
Oh- and lots of cuddling afterwards!

 

[SensualCealy]

I just ordered some stuff, its in the X-man line from partytime.
It is silicone based and when you put it on your fingers its super slippery but not gooie (sp? lol)

Kinda expensive, but I think it will work fantasically, if not Ill go back to the new stand by, astroglide- strawberry flavoured!
Have fun,
Cealy

ps, if you do it doggy style, she can push against you taking as much or as little as she needs.

 

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Re: lube

 

[Etoile]

I agree that Astroglide is the best-but in a pinch Olive Oil works great!

Though, again, it breaks down condoms. And I definitely recommend condoms for anal sex, as it makes cleanup much easier.

 

[Etoile]

Kinda expensive, but I think it will work fantasically, if not Ill go back to the new stand by, astroglide- strawberry flavoured!
Have fun,
Cealy

ps, if you do it doggy style, she can push against you taking as much or as little as she needs.

Unfortunately Astroglide doesn't come in flavors. But doing it doggy style the first time is an excellent suggestion!

 

[SensualCealy]

I beg to differ but I have a bottle of strawberry astro glide on my bedside table right now. It is new, in the last few months. They also have one other flavour but I cant remember what it was. This stuff actually tastes like real strawberries, not the artificial stuff.
One other thing, I wouldn't incert a finger during climax, Id do it before she hits her climax. I tend to tighten up after and it hurts more, I guess while in the mood anything is possible, just start really slow and let her push against you to show how much she wants and can take at once.
Have fun,
cealy

 

[Etoile]

*gawks at www.astroglide.com a lot*

It does come in strawberry.

That seems to be the only flavor they're advertising right now, though.

But you can get Astroglide tshirts now! Awesome!