Loving Wives..To Cheat or Not To Cheat...

[SpyBob]

...that is the question...

I'm a brand new writer and I want to write fantasies about me and my wife. I've written three stories and posted them to the Loving Wives category as that seems to me to be the right place for them. I like to write about good ole' raunchy, monogamous, married sex, not turned on by cheating at all. I've recieved decent reviews about the stories, but some 'negative' comments about where I posted them, as well as some very supportive ones...

So, my question is, what did the kind kinky folks who set up this category have in mind? Happily married sex or cheating sex? I'm not looking for a flame war...I'm not saying that stories about cheating are wrong, just want to make sure I'm the right place...you know something akin to not crackin' the top of an Ice Cold Bud in the middle of a Baptist Revival...

Thanks!

 

[Skei0]

hey...given that there doesnt appear to be another suitable wives category like 'slut wives' I don't see why it's inappropriate to post here...In fact, browsing through the categories I can't see another one listed that would be even nearly appropriate to post this kind of story in.

 

[Darkniciad]

Loving wives, whether that was the original intention or not, is almost exclusively cuckold, cheating, etc.

There are also three ( or more ) camps of people among the regular readers who are constantly at war over stories there. If you make one group happy, you usually piss off another and get nasty comments. It takes a truly masterful writer not to get cut to shreds in LW.

Which is why I stay far, far away

From the general description of where you are going with your stories, it might be best to post them in Erotic Couplings. If the fantasy is heavy on something like Anal, Domination, or some other type of kink, you might want to post it in one of those catagories.

If your story is just hot and heavy sex with no special focus, stick with Erotic Couplings.

 

[SpyBob]

Thanks for that...I'll see what happens next...

 

[caprine]

I think...

for my two cents worth, that Darkniciad is correct. I would vote the "safe" place for you to post would be under the very general category "Erotic Couplings," but the category "Loving Wives" would also appear appropriate. However, the usual postings in the later category tend to be about cheating, so you "pays your money and takes your chances!"

 

[SpyBob]

for my two cents worth, that Darkniciad is correct. I would vote the "safe" place for you to post would be under the very general category "Erotic Couplings," but the category "Loving Wives" would also appear appropriate. However, the usual postings in the later category tend to be about cheating, so you "pays your money and takes your chances!"

It's a good thing that really don't care too much about what folks think about where I put my stories, I'm only writing for one person anyway...

Call me old fashioned, but I think that when your wife loves you, she loves YOU. I've recieved some pretty positive comments that this is what folks want to see in this category, so I think I'll take my chances. I'm not going to go all militant, but just write for fun...what a concept!

Thanks!

 

[jeninflorida]

...that is the question...

I'm a brand new writer and I want to write fantasies about me and my wife. I've written three stories and posted them to the Loving Wives category as that seems to me to be the right place for them. I like to write about good ole' raunchy, monogamous, married sex, not turned on by cheating at all. I've recieved decent reviews about the stories, but some 'negative' comments about where I posted them, as well as some very supportive ones...

So, my question is, what did the kind kinky folks who set up this category have in mind? Happily married sex or cheating sex? I'm not looking for a flame war...I'm not saying that stories about cheating are wrong, just want to make sure I'm the right place...you know something akin to not crackin' the top of an Ice Cold Bud in the middle of a Baptist Revival...

Thanks!

well...for me l.w. does not have to be a cheating wife. just about all men love the fmf fantasy, and most women love the mfm fantasy (after all, we want to be treated like a queen and have men worshiping us!)...

now, if you have two characters, husband and wife, then romance would be better....if you add a lover then l.w.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

I've posted once there and got good votes. I think the key is creativity. Make the story interesting. If you'd like help/ideas, PM me with your next sub and I'll read, edit, etc.

 

[saw_man1]

Since you asked

The content of the story does not matter at all to me. I've read a thousand of them and have enjoyed every possible scenario or ending. I have also read some real stinkers.

If you diligently cover your plot, character, and dialogue bases you'll be fine. Although, if you are going to write in this category you need to be prepared for heaps of abuse.

 

[jack_straw]

LW Police

It has been my experience that there is a cadre of hard-core, self-appointed zealots who patrol the Loving Wives category. They read every single story in the category and if they encounter a cheating wife story where there is the faintest possibility that the husband might actually forgive the wife and work to keep the marriage, or worse, encounter a story where the wife steps out either with the husband or with the husband's blessing, they rip that story a new asshole and it doesn't matter how well-written or creative that story is. They'll call any wife who strays even once a whore or a slut, and any husband who does anything less than kick said wife to the curb without so much as a second thought is a wimp and a cuckold. I have absolutely no patience with these people and if I get a comment in the public section from one of these clowns I delete it. Piss on them.

 

[janiexx]

It has been my experience that there is a cadre of hard-core, self-appointed zealots who patrol the Loving Wives category. They read every single story in the category and if they encounter a cheating wife story where there is the faintest possibility that the husband might actually forgive the wife and work to keep the marriage, or worse, encounter a story where the wife steps out either with the husband or with the husband's blessing, they rip that story a new asshole and it doesn't matter how well-written or creative that story is. They'll call any wife who strays even once a whore or a slut, and any husband who does anything less than kick said wife to the curb without so much as a second thought is a wimp and a cuckold. I have absolutely no patience with these people and if I get a comment in the public section from one of these clowns I delete it. Piss on them.

Hi,

I've just had the group of zealots hunt out and tear into my latest story in Erotic Couplings. And in this case, my character wasn't even married...

I positively welcome constructive criticism but these anonymous comments make me angry because I can't personally reply to them. I had one comment left by a member who "does not accept anonymous feedback"!! How hypocritical is that!!

What is most important to me is whether my story is well-written or not and I try very hard to make it easy and enjoyable to read.

And, at the end of the day, it's only a story...it's not real.

janiexx

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Hello... Loving Wives ???

Hell, I'm not surprised that those who post in the Loving Wives forum are surprised. The readers are annoyed by marital cheating. How is that freaking "loving" in any way, anyway? I am almost done with a story I'll post there. This forum should be about a couple trying to add eroticism back into their ordinay lives, not the paperboy getting his jollies. I have that figured out, being one of them myself (one side of a loving couple).

If you respect the sanctity of marriage and write accordingly, I find that the readers are very generous.

Okay, I'm done ranting. So many writers fear that forum, but I embrace it, because I understand and am committed to their needs.

That said, I will post my next story in the next day or two.

<smiling> Be kind.

Love to all.

AS

 

[Darkniciad]

Hell, I'm not surprised that those who post in the Loving Wives forum are surprised. The readers are annoyed by marital cheating. How is that freaking "loving" in any way, anyway? I am almost done with a story I'll post there. This forum should be about a couple trying to add eroticism back into their ordinay lives, not the paperboy getting his jollies. I have that figured out, being one of them myself (one side of a loving couple).

If you respect the sanctity of marriage and write accordingly, I find that the readers are very generous.

Okay, I'm done ranting. So many writers fear that forum, but I embrace it, because I understand and am committed to their needs.

That said, I will post my next story in the next day or two.

<smiling> Be kind.

Love to all.

AS

But, would the same story not do just as well in Erotic Couplings or Romance ( depending upon the flavor ) and not be hit with a barrage of "This isn't in the right catagory" comments and low votes? I would argue in fact that the story would do *better* in one of those two catagories as far as the standings. I'll go back and finish your story and RVC it in a little while, but from the part I read, I would say it deserves a higher rating than what it has, and that is a direct result of the dangerous waters of Loving Wives in my opinion. Naturally, that may be utterly irrelevant to you as a writer, and that's perfectly fine. In fact, more power to ya! You're obviously reaching an audiance that is starved for your type of story there.

You can't deny that there are several camps in that section, all at war, and several of them want to see cheating. A writer with solid storytelling ability can weather the storm and find shore again regardless of the overall theme of the story, but first-timers and people honing their craft are going to be mutilated by the camps. That was the reason for my previous comments. It was not obvious in the beginning that the OP could care less about the rating and just wanted to share the stories with the people who would most appreciate them by placing them in the right cat.

I do have a little concern for my ratings, for the purposes of providing exposure to more readers through the toplist and getting feedback, which is what I really thrive on I was simply providing advice to the OP which would provide better ratings as well as reaching an audiance which would also appreciate the sort of tale he was describing in case he had a similar outlook on things.

 

[S-Des]

But, would the same story not do just as well in Erotic Couplings or Romance ( depending upon the flavor ) and not be hit with a barrage of "This isn't in the right catagory" comments and low votes? I would argue in fact that the story would do *better* in one of those two catagories as far as the standings. I'll go back and finish your story and RVC it in a little while, but from the part I read, I would say it deserves a higher rating than what it has, and that is a direct result of the dangerous waters of Loving Wives in my opinion. Naturally, that may be utterly irrelevant to you as a writer, and that's perfectly fine. In fact, more power to ya! You're obviously reaching an audiance that is starved for your type of story there.

You can't deny that there are several camps in that section, all at war, and several of them want to see cheating. A writer with solid storytelling ability can weather the storm and find shore again regardless of the overall theme of the story, but first-timers and people honing their craft are going to be mutilated by the camps. That was the reason for my previous comments. It was not obvious in the beginning that the OP could care less about the rating and just wanted to share the stories with the people who would most appreciate them by placing them in the right cat.

I do have a little concern for my ratings, for the purposes of providing exposure to more readers through the toplist and getting feedback, which is what I really thrive on I was simply providing advice to the OP which would provide better ratings as well as reaching an audiance which would also appreciate the sort of tale he was describing in case he had a similar outlook on things.

That is good advice. Longtime writers have done some nice stories about hot sex between a loving wife and her husband and gotten very good scores and reviews there. Sometimes it involves swerving the reader a little, like the couple is playing a role-playing game and you think they're cheating or if it's a misunderstanding. I haven't seen a lot of romantic stories there (and I've read most of them).

I have to say that as a grizzled veteran of the category (three stories and counting ), I can live with the negativity. My stories get far more views in that category, and isn't that why we write? To share our thoughts and fantasies with others? Post where you want and don't worry about what anyone says. Just be aware that new writers tend to get beaten up in a couple of the categories until people get used to their style (you should see some of the email and comments I've gotten).

 

[jeninflorida]

Hell, I'm not surprised that those who post in the Loving Wives forum are surprised. The readers are annoyed by marital cheating. How is that freaking "loving" in any way, anyway? I am almost done with a story I'll post there. This forum should be about a couple trying to add eroticism back into their ordinay lives, not the paperboy getting his jollies. I have that figured out, being one of them myself (one side of a loving couple).

If you respect the sanctity of marriage and write accordingly, I find that the readers are very generous.

Okay, I'm done ranting. So many writers fear that forum, but I embrace it, because I understand and am committed to their needs.

That said, I will post my next story in the next day or two.

<smiling> Be kind.

Love to all.

AS

there is nothing more powerful then an affair...lots of emotion. we've all been there once or twice in our lifetime....

now, between public sex and an affair....the fear of being caught...the feeling of doing something naughty....

 

[jeninflorida]

Tuesday Night book club

well this show might be interesting, thought that I read one of the wives was having an affair......


its funny, a lot of cbs tv shows toss the hot wife thing out there, everbody loves raymond, kind of queens, and yes dear

all have flirted with the idea....

 

[dirtyjoe69]

Huh???

Riddle me this Batman! How can a woman be loving if she is a cheater....not showing much love to her man there is she? I think this category should be about how much a woman loves her man, at the most venture into consentual group sex...


just my opinion...doesn't count for *&^%!

 

[Lazyloner]

Sadly true

It has been my experience that there is a cadre of hard-core, self-appointed zealots who patrol the Loving Wives category. They read every single story in the category and if they encounter a cheating wife story where there is the faintest possibility that the husband might actually forgive the wife and work to keep the marriage, or worse, encounter a story where the wife steps out either with the husband or with the husband's blessing, they rip that story a new asshole and it doesn't matter how well-written or creative that story is. They'll call any wife who strays even once a whore or a slut, and any husband who does anything less than kick said wife to the curb without so much as a second thought is a wimp and a cuckold. I have absolutely no patience with these people and if I get a comment in the public section from one of these clowns I delete it. Piss on them.

Its pretty clear that there are 3 groups who read stories in the "loving wifes" category

1) the self appointed "kill the cheating whore wife" group who wants to see the wife caught and then burned at the stake.
2) the group that enjoys the idea of the woman putting one over on her husband and who love to see the husband unknowningly eat creampies
3) the sober and adult group who just look for good stories, and are somewhat polite about things.

Sadly, groups 1 and 2 both have very loud members who are quite willing to be abusive in their responses when they encounter a story they don't like. Also because of them the "loving wives" category is more of a "cheating wife" category now, and there is little romance or erotic stories with faithful couples, which I personally would like to see. I like a good romance.

Mr. Long Reviewer (who finally broke down and got a screenname. )

 

[jeninflorida]

I have to say, some of us think about having two men, just like you guys think about having two girls

 

[jeninflorida]

Riddle me this Batman! How can a woman be loving if she is a cheater....not showing much love to her man there is she? I think this category should be about how much a woman loves her man, at the most venture into consentual group sex...


just my opinion...doesn't count for *&^%!

so if she has sex with others, she does not love her husband? what about a husband who has sex with a girl?

with so many divorces...and affairs, why sneak off and do something behind your spouses back. i mean, life is hard....it should be a married couple as a team against the world and all the issues. so why not make your relationshp strong and share. we all think about others, and in the right situation it can be fun and erotic....

 

[dirtyjoe69]

go for it!

If you want to know how I feel about a woman or my wife for that matter enjoying another man you should read my first posted story.

http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=261183

It was based on an actual event!

But like I said before as long as it is consensul swinging then it can be a loving wife, if either of you step out, that show's a lack of love.

 

[leapyearguy]

I agree with Sdes on his point about number of views, I think we all want to be read as much as posible. For example I have posted a couple of LW stories that could have served as well in the humor sat catagorie in a few weeks the hits are in the 20,000 range. My other stories in the hum cat are in the low thousands 2 or 3. If the anon commenters bother you by all means find another catagory. If you want hits and feed back go to LW but be prepared to weed out the comments that are just made because they can make them. LYG

 

[marriedpervs]

Loving / slut wives....feedback

Hi all,
I write on here as Marriedpervs. I am a woman, married, children, and aged 41. Most of my stories are based (some loosely) on real-life, fun, sexy adventures that my husband and I have shared with others.

I know that by posting these stories in the appropriate section, which I believe to be Loving Wives, I will cop heaps of flack from some people.

The simple answer is I don't give a stuff!

I respect other's right to have an opinion, BUT, I won't let it change my desires and my want to post my stories.

If it's a really nasty comment, not really based on the story, we all have the power to delete it anyway, so I don't let it worry me too much.

For me, the excitement is the writing of the story itself, and the sharing of it via posting.

Hope you all love my stories. Those who don't, feel free to correspond with me if you'd like to air your genuine concerns!

My stories are here: http://english.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=304628&page=submissions

Love, Marriedpervs

 

[jackson123]

Loving / slut wives....feedback

these stories you post mariedpervs are a bit much. one of my good friends had his married destroyed at a swingers party after what happened to his wife.

this stuff really isn't a joke.

 

[jeninflorida]

these stories you post mariedpervs are a bit much. one of my good friends had his married destroyed at a swingers party after what happened to his wife.

this stuff really isn't a joke.

i think, a lot of people swing for the wrong reason.