Loveless Sex

[Matthew Craig]

Is love a requirement in order for you to have sex?

 

[suurfer]

derp.

 

[Matthew Craig]

I ask because when you think about it, people have loveless sex all the time when they masturbate. Even when watching porn as a visual aid, do they love the porn star? No, probably not. Sure they might feel an attraction. But that's all it is. Would they have loveless sex with the porn star? Maybe in the moment sure. How easily do you give yourself away, and is it only for love.

 

[RocketLauncher]

Double derp.

 

[Jada59]

Of course not!

 

[suurfer]

I ask because when you think about it, people have loveless sex all the time when they masturbate. Even when watching porn as a visual aid, do they love the porn star? No, probably not. Sure they might feel an attraction. But that's all it is. Would they have loveless sex with the porn star? Maybe in the moment sure. How easily do you give yourself away, and is it only for love.

I see a similar rationale in many contemp. Hollywood movies:
the empowered heroine who doesn't want commitment
so she picks up men in bars, uses them like toothbrushes and throws them out in the morning.

 

[Kantarii]

I’d give a better answer if I felt I wasn’t on iggy.

 

[suurfer]

I’d give a better answer if I felt I wasn’t on iggy.

He's just playing hard to get.

 

[silver gurl]

Yep....

 

[SissySalina]

Yes, sissy loves HER and SHE tells sissy who to have sex with. That means love is required to have sex.

 

[LesDesirable]

I had my loveless physical sex in my early twenties, never again; sex is now about the spiritual bond, not the physical act.

 

[FGB]

Two sexaholics with the right chemistry can seriously make the orgasms roll even if it is the first date ... I have proved this many times in my life.

Even people that don't necessarily like or know each other can have great sex.

Sure it's nice and even better if two people care deeply or love each other and then sometimes it gets in the way.

 

[Conager]

I don't know about love, but I am not much interested in it if I don't have a basic level of what seems like mutual respect and affection.

 

[von_Bismarck]

In principle, yes, but in practice, no.

 

[hogjack]

I am hardly an expert but successful - even satisfying! - sex can be accomplished even when missing ingredients that many others believe necessary.

Loveless, bottomless, topless, paperless and thankless sex are done all the time. People adjust. You will too.

 

[SalviaDivinorum]

I've enjoyed loveless sex from time to time, but also sexless love. Life can be intensely odd.

 

[Rackham75]

Sex is fun.

Two people who like each other a lot and have great chemistry can have amazing sex, and they don't necessarily have to be in love. I've had great sex with women that I've known and not been in a romantic relationship with.

 

[Saint Peter]

I've enjoyed loveless sex from time to time, but also sexless love. Life can be intensely odd.

loveless sex + sexless love = 0

 

[dick912]

Is It Lust?

Loveless sex is an affair that last for a short time. Lust is something can drive two people together for sex. Lust will last for a max of one year.

 

[Maeven_quinn]

I've enjoyed loveless sex from time to time, but also sexless love. Life can be intensely odd.

Sexless love happens. I still have a squish on woman who I worked with two jobs ago. She’s too cool to be my friend.. lol

 

[Maeven_quinn]

I’ve seldom had loveless sex. The most frequent love I’ve had with sex is friendship love, not romantic love, if that makes sense. Romantic love sex and friendship sex are different, but not not better or worse.

 

[greengamegirl]

I think you mean, is love a requirement to have good sex.

Is love a requirement in order for you to have sex?

 

[GracePrice]

Too many feelings

No. I always end up with feelings though.

 

[Rosa2019]

To give "away" ?

To love somebody is primarily for self enjoyment to begin with. Anything else is secondary. Enjoy .

 

[jp55665566]

Loveless sex happens; but sex with love is better.