Love?

[DreamerDiva]

Can love exist within a Dom/Sub relationship?

Torn and unsure...

I'm married (just to be clear).
None of my emotional or sexual needs are being met. Sexual needs, well what sex?

Not to be unrealistic I want someone who I can submit to on that level, someone who will adore and cherish me. Guide me and teach me. Someone who possibly with time might be able to say there's a stronger connection.

Is this unrealistic and unheard of?

Ps for those who will comment, if I'm that unhappy why I can't leave my husband. We have two young children and at this stage it isn't an option.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Sorry you are so unfulfilled in your marriage - you are one of many of us.

As for your question - absolutely! D/s relations can exist with love, and when they do they are amazing. For a D/s relationship to really be grounded there needs to be a high level of trust from the sub and a deep commitment to care from the Dom. Further, the Dom must really know the inner workings of the sub to know how to guide and mentor them. Without those attitudes and feelings D/s relationships can easily slip into abuse (though not necessarily). Love is integral to a powerful D/s relationship...

 

[WillJ8787]

Yes Love can exist

Short answer:

Yes, love can exist in any type of relationship. It's up to you and your partner.

Your needs are important and that never changes through out your life although what you need may change.

Yes, you can leave your husband even though you have children. There is no law or rule that forces you to stay, the choice is yours.

I've experienced some of this so write back if you need to.

Will

 

[RichardBentwood]

Love stinks! That being said have you talked to your husband about your wants and needs? Do you think you can have an open and honest discussion with him without him being judgmental? I know I can't my ol lady just clams up and acts butthurt all week.