AvaAdore
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 15, 2002
- Posts
- 488
(okay, starting with a little intro since this is my first post )
i have been reading this forum for a week or two before registering. i have read the stories (mainly bdsm) on literotica for a couple of years, but i have never been to the forums. i came here out of curiosity about what people do in real life, and didnt think i would post since i am very inexperienced, however i see that there are quite a few who are also new to it, so i dont feel quite so left out also i am coming across threads i want to comment in i consider myself to be submissive...for the most part.
i have recently entered a relationship with someone who i was very good friends with for a while (and still am ). as my luck turned out, he's into aspects of bdsm as well. however, as it also turns out, we both seem to be submissive by nature. we've been experimenting with a few things here and there (bought a hard leather cat-o-nine-tails and played with it, spanking, biting and scratching, tying up), and have found that being the "top" is quite fun. being the top is not nearly as sexually satisfying, but it's quite a lot of fun
now to business:
how important do you consider love to be in this sort of a relationship? i dont mean one time "play" sessions, but more long term relationships. to me, love and trust are paramount, and i find it hard to imagine that i would fully submit to someone i did not love.
i have been reading this forum for a week or two before registering. i have read the stories (mainly bdsm) on literotica for a couple of years, but i have never been to the forums. i came here out of curiosity about what people do in real life, and didnt think i would post since i am very inexperienced, however i see that there are quite a few who are also new to it, so i dont feel quite so left out also i am coming across threads i want to comment in i consider myself to be submissive...for the most part.
i have recently entered a relationship with someone who i was very good friends with for a while (and still am ). as my luck turned out, he's into aspects of bdsm as well. however, as it also turns out, we both seem to be submissive by nature. we've been experimenting with a few things here and there (bought a hard leather cat-o-nine-tails and played with it, spanking, biting and scratching, tying up), and have found that being the "top" is quite fun. being the top is not nearly as sexually satisfying, but it's quite a lot of fun
now to business:
how important do you consider love to be in this sort of a relationship? i dont mean one time "play" sessions, but more long term relationships. to me, love and trust are paramount, and i find it hard to imagine that i would fully submit to someone i did not love.