Love as a Form

~justin

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I had an interesting debate with one of my housemates, a good friend of mine, the other night. He's a hopeless romantic (living, oddly enough, in the body of a 20-year-old womanizing bastard) and firmly believes that love conquers all because it is an unstoppable universal force.

So I asked him if this meant that love had existence outside of the consciousness that feels it, meaning that love itself would continue to exist even if there were no living things in existence - and he said yes. Of course, this sparked an extended debate. I mean, if love has real, actual existence apart from those things that partake of it, what about the rest of Plato's Forms? Virtue, justice, piety... and the banal ones pointed out in Parmenides, like redness or unhorseness. He conceded that sure, there could very well be an infinity of ideas that are an inherent property of any universe, and any consciousness "having ideas" is simply "partaking of the Forms" (to put it in the Platonic sense). We went back and forth for a while, and came to two separate conclusions. In his view, ideas are created at the same time as the universe, whether or not there is a divine creator involved, because ideas are inherent to universes. In my view, consciousness has the ability to spontaneously generate ideas. What this boils down to is this: either the laws of conservation (no spontaneous generation allowed) are violated once, when the universe comes into existence, and that violation is of infinite magnitude... or there are infinite violations, each of magnitude 1 (one idea at a time per consciousness). We couldn't agree on which made more sense.

Anyone have any thoughts on the subject? :) I thought it might be fun to open something like this up for debate...
 
What? No philosophers on the board?

I'll bite.

The first question seems to be (to me), is love a characteristic of the universe (such as gravity or time) or is it a descriptor of an emotion felt by living things?

Since I have seen no evidence of the former and plenty of the latter, I would assert the former. In some contexts love could be called a "force", even a very powerful force, but unstoppable? Hardly. It is not even immutable.

The second question would be, can love "conquer all"? While a very powerful force, I see no evidence that it is "unstoppable", and even if it was unstoppable, that does not mean it would "conquer everything".

Maybe too logical for a philosophy discussion of love, but that is the way I am.

STG
 
I don't think you really *can* be too logical in the context of a discussion :)

Eric, my friend, held that, while love could change, it could never be destroyed and thus it "conquered all." Of course, his "love" was confined to the unconditional variety - and then that allowed him to say "if your love ended, then it wasn't unconditional!"

:)
 
all i know is that when i fell in love it made me believe in the human soul and believe that we can never fully understand everything
 
~justin said:
I don't think you really *can* be too logical in the context of a discussion :)

Eric, my friend, held that, while love could change, it could never be destroyed and thus it "conquered all." Of course, his "love" was confined to the unconditional variety - and then that allowed him to say "if your love ended, then it wasn't unconditional!"

:)
Self serving and circular logic on his part - kind of like those health and wealth Christians that say that if you aren't healthy and wealthy it is because you aren't a good Christian. As if nothing bad ever happens to innocent people.

He apparently had never met a Fatal Attraction type of person. The closest thing I have ever seen that comes close to truly unconditional love is the love a parent feels for a child. As a parent I can testify to that - but I also know that people change and that they can do things that you would never expect them to do.

STG
 
I agree that we can't ever fully understand everything :) I don't think we have the mental capacity for it.

I actually gave him his "unconditionalness." Sure, it's a narrow definition, but it seems to work. He makes allowances for love *changing;* you're allowed to leave someone you love, but, in his view, your love changes rather than ending. You're also allowed to love more than one person at once, so children and relatives are also included. The logic is a bit circular, though.
 
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