Fifty year old male, retired firefighter, Bachelors degree, Hawaii native, Polynesian/Hispanic origins, recent divorcee. I just relocated to the San Francisco Bay Area and am finding myself overwhelmed by just about every factor necessary to having a decent social life. Help! Just need advice on where to start; I'm straight and not seeking out intimacy or lust...just sincerity and suggestions. Not a bar hopper; but appreciate a decent Vodka Martini. I just rebuilt a 94 Jeep Wrangler and have taken it to Lake Tahoe twice. Beautiful trip; just needed to be shared. Aloha.