Losing It

[AppleBiter]

How old were you when you lost your virginity? Was it a good or bad experience? Do you regret losing it at that age?

I was 16. The experience was painful, but amazing. I don't regret it because the man I lost it to is the man I'm married to, today, and I feel like I was emotionally mature enough to handle sex at that age.

How about you?

 

[LadyTemptress]

I was almost 16, he got me drunk for the first time and took me on his living room floor. I tried to fight him off but it didn't work. Hurt a lot, I would equal it to labor. Yes I regret going out with him and getting myself in a situation I couldn't get out of.

I have always been envious of women that had a good experience losing their virginity to a love or someone very special to them.

Such is life.

 

[sophia jane]

I was 14. Very stupid. It wasn't painful, or even particularly memorable. And I do wish I could go back and be smarter about it.

SJ

 

[English Lady]

I lost mine at 19 to my now husband it was fantastic! Really slow, really sensuous, he massaged me and i massaged him and it went from there...yummy

 

[Softouch911]

I was 15, and she was 17 and "experienced." She took me down the the stock room in the cellar of the department store where I worked after school. I don't remember her name but recall the perfume.

I thought I was so cool. lol





Softouch

 

[Goldie Munro]

I was 19 - we were both virgins - it was planned and it was quite sensual and very pleasant - it did hurt for a bit - but we loved it so much we were in bed for about 48 hours afterwards!

 

[dreampilot79]

I was 13 and working or rather helping work in a rather public situation... I guess you'd call the 17 year old who wisked me away a groupie... I wasn't the target of her desires... but he turned her down flat... so she settled for the helper.

She drug me off for a quickie.. then berated me for my inexperience...
Took me years to overcome the emotional stress.

Might be why now I try a lil harder and go the extra mile, so I guess it all worked out in the end.

 

[Guest]

Seventeen, and I approached it like a necessary step; a threshold to adulthood. She was a former girlfriend, vastly experienced, who I'd turned down repeatedly starting two years before. After we broke up, we became friends, and when I was ready, she happily offered again.

Was it great? No. It wasn't bad, and it was very, very exciting. It started me on what would be life, and a research experience for writing on Lit.

Aside to dreampilot79 : Your experience sounds like Danny Bonaduce. He tells the story that his first, at 13, was a 19 year old who couldn't get access to David Cassidy, so settled for him.

 

[kendo1]

Seveteen, and we went at it all night. Unexplored territory.
She was a virgin too, but she kept on going. I stayed for breakfast.

 

[ElizabethWest]

19 with my first love. We had been dating almost two years and we felt that it was time. Hurt like hell but he was huge.

We broke up a year later.

 

[purple_angel]

I was 14 and hooked up with some guy from Malaga - well it was hot and in a strange land! It seemed so exotic at the time - now just seems tacky - oh well! You live and learn (do you?)!

 

[NoJo]

How old were you when you lost your virginity? Was it a good or bad experience? Do you regret losing it at that age?

I was 16. The experience was painful, but amazing. I don't regret it because the man I lost it to is the man I'm married to, today, and I feel like I was emotionally mature enough to handle sex at that age.

How about you?

Have you had sex with anyone else?

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

The first time I was 20 and not a willing participant.

The second time was over a year later and was with my now husband. We didn't sleep much that night.

 

[The_Fool]

I'm still working on it......

 

[Kassiana]

How old were you when you lost your virginity? Was it a good or bad experience? Do you regret losing it at that age?

I was 25. It was marvellous, but yes, I regret not having lost it years earlier.

 

[Virtual_Burlesque]

I didn't know anybody, and was still trying to get the feel of the board, when I happend to look over and saw Experienced under my name.

Isn't it amazing how quickly those first twenty-five post go?

 

[CharleyH]

How old were you when you lost your virginity? Was it a good or bad experience? Do you regret losing it at that age?

I was 16. The experience was painful, but amazing. I don't regret it because the man I lost it to is the man I'm married to, today, and I feel like I was emotionally mature enough to handle sex at that age.

How about you?

Regret? NEVER. 14, with two guys, and the worst experience of my life, except that mescaline sex one. What else you want to know?

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I was 13, the guy was 15 and he was not my boyfriend, actually he was someone else's boyfriend.

The guy was nice, very considerate and responsible. If I recall, there was a Kiss song playing on the radio and that was rather unnerving.

It wasn't good sex, it hurt, but it was over quickly, thank god. We did it in his little sister's bed, which didn't bother me at the time, but now it's sort of creepy. I didn't know a thing about having orgasms or even "how" to have one until I was about nineteen. So, this was the beginning of six years of sex for me which was mediocre at best.

 

[SeaCat]

I was fifteen, she was sixteen and the daughter of one of the other ranch hands. It happened on the shore of a small river which ran through one corner of the ranch property. She is now married to another ranch hand and from what she has told me when we write has a great life.

Do I regret it? No, but I do wish I could go back and change a few things about it.

Cat

 

[CharleyH]

I didn't know anybody, and was still trying to get the feel of the board, when I happend to look over and saw Experienced under my name.

Isn't it amazing how quickly those first twenty-five post go?

Yeah, tell us a bedtime story, VB You are beyond experienced ,like 2000 or so posts

 

[angelicminx]

I was 13, he was 17... I said NO, he didn't listen. I didn't have my first orgasm with a man until I was nearly 17. (learned how to give myself one before I was 12)

Oh, well, that which doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

 

[LadyJeanne]

I was 20, in college, and seeing this handsome blue-eyed blonde with Scandinavian cheekbones and a mischievous spirit. We had been seeing each other for a few months and I was just waiting for the right moment. That moment turned out to be when we returned to my place after a Halloween dance. My dress had these buttons in the back from top to bottom, which he started unbuttoning one by one even as we were still climbing the stairs to my apartment.

It did hurt and I got no where near having an orgasm, but it was a good night with a good guy - all in all, fun and exciting.

 

[minsue]

I was 16. We were both virgins. Got high with his parents (gotta love pot heads that get their kids' friends high...the only "peer pressure" I've ever had was from his mother) then wandered off to his room. Got interrupted by his mother calling us to dinner. A few months later, while hiding in his closet, I got to hear his mother screaming at him about "fucking that slut". Oops. I guess even hippie holdouts have some moral standards.

It wasn't that great, but not terrible. Sex with him was the most adventurous, I think, of any one I've been with. We were both virgins with very little inhibition with each other and since it was all new we both wanted to try everything, plus both of us enjoyed sex in public which worked out well. Good times, though not great sex.

 

[AppleBiter]

Have you had sex with anyone else?

Nope! Just the one man, and I don't feel as though I've missed out on anything. He's all I'll ever need. FABULOUS sex!

 

[yui]

How old were you when you lost your virginity? Nineteen.

Was it a good or bad experience? Both. Yes, it hurt. I had his bottom lip between my teeth, and every time it hurt, I would bite down on his lip and he would stop moving. This makes me smile now writing about it. I loved him. Summer break, in the mountains. Dew soaked through the blanket before we got our clothes off. There were fireflies.

Do you regret losing it at that age? No. No regrets. To change one thing is to change it all. I wouldn't give up the good to lose the bad.

Luck to all,

Yui