Los Angeles - Gut seeking pervy nerdy bi/curious open minded Female BFF/LTR
TOTAL needle in the ole haystack here...
I am a 41 year young (yikes, 40's are the new 30's right?) orally bi white male, 6' tall, 240 lbs (husky, but workout six days a week and trying to eat healtier), bald, and for the "adult" requirements, just under 6" cut, been told nicely thick, DDF/Neg, and SAFE play only :-D I am looking for a bi/curious pervy friend for chatting, getting out to see cheap/free things in LA, and maybe, just maybe, if we wish real hard, a LTR...
I'm educated (BA and MFA), have a day job, actively purse the acting goals which means my schedule can a bit erratice, but work hard making time to spend time with that "special someone". I consider myself a nerd/geek, big kid at heart (but know when to be an adult, don't worry), non smoker, no illegal drugs of any kind including 420, no tattoos or body mods/peircings, and prefer same, especially on tattoos (no offense, I respect the art, but for me they are a HUGE turn off). I have zero interest in sports, politic, religion, cars, or being a parent.
I a a big time cuddler, hugger, kisser, so hopefully you are too. I consider myself a nerd all the way: comic books, Star Trek, learing MTG (slowly but surely), video games, etc. LOVE horror, sci fi, fantasty and comic book movies, would love a horror movie buddy, and I'll take 3D any day! Also very active in getting in better shape with a gym, running, re-learning how to swim, would love to do more hiking, and all this can be a lot more fun with a friend, right?
As I mentioned I'm orally bi, and fascinated by the well endowed, but NOT sexually attracted to men and have no desire to have sex, with a man. Basically, I just enjoy stroking and give covered blow jobs to big cocks. I have no desire to go beyond this.
This does not mean I'm looking for full on 3-somes or anything like that. I'm one of those that wants one partner to have sex with (been cheated on a few times so not my thing). But it would be nice to have a friend/girlfriend who enjoys watching this, and vice versa if you are bi/curious. We could watch each other play with the same sex, and finish off by letting them watch us together...talk about a great buddy system!
As I've gotten older I find I want to explore more sexually and open to trying things. Toys, love watching porn of all kinds, even some taboo/non-mainstream, intersted in light water sports, anal play, BDSM, taboo role play etc. The worst thing we can say is "no" to something, right? Also, as it's been a LONG time since I had sex (last gf was long distance, and only saw her once a year), little out of practice...okay, a LOT out of practice, on top of being older...well, just a lot of patience will be appreciated...
Only race I believe in is the human race, and the alien races missing their interstellar exits and crashing into the rest stop known as Earth, so doesn't matter to me if you're white, black, Romulan or Wookiee, Well, maybe not a Wookiee, I do like the "smooth" look...wow, that just got interesting lol.
Physially speaking, I'll be completely honest, because we all have our favorites,yes? - I am attracted to those "vertically challenged" in height, and very busty/top heavy and proud of it :-D If you happen to have raven black hair, that's just a bonus. Age wise looking for 43 and younger, educated, that semi introverted type that is secretly pervy and playful. Yeah, something like that.
I found this passage that best describes (we could change "club" to "con" :-D) what I'd love to find if the LTR option presents itself:
"I don't want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner-in-crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust my heart, my sould and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership? I'll take that".
So if you're still reading and interested...I hope to hear from you. :-D
TOTAL needle in the ole haystack here...
I am a 41 year young (yikes, 40's are the new 30's right?) orally bi white male, 6' tall, 240 lbs (husky, but workout six days a week and trying to eat healtier), bald, and for the "adult" requirements, just under 6" cut, been told nicely thick, DDF/Neg, and SAFE play only :-D I am looking for a bi/curious pervy friend for chatting, getting out to see cheap/free things in LA, and maybe, just maybe, if we wish real hard, a LTR...
I'm educated (BA and MFA), have a day job, actively purse the acting goals which means my schedule can a bit erratice, but work hard making time to spend time with that "special someone". I consider myself a nerd/geek, big kid at heart (but know when to be an adult, don't worry), non smoker, no illegal drugs of any kind including 420, no tattoos or body mods/peircings, and prefer same, especially on tattoos (no offense, I respect the art, but for me they are a HUGE turn off). I have zero interest in sports, politic, religion, cars, or being a parent.
I a a big time cuddler, hugger, kisser, so hopefully you are too. I consider myself a nerd all the way: comic books, Star Trek, learing MTG (slowly but surely), video games, etc. LOVE horror, sci fi, fantasty and comic book movies, would love a horror movie buddy, and I'll take 3D any day! Also very active in getting in better shape with a gym, running, re-learning how to swim, would love to do more hiking, and all this can be a lot more fun with a friend, right?
As I mentioned I'm orally bi, and fascinated by the well endowed, but NOT sexually attracted to men and have no desire to have sex, with a man. Basically, I just enjoy stroking and give covered blow jobs to big cocks. I have no desire to go beyond this.
This does not mean I'm looking for full on 3-somes or anything like that. I'm one of those that wants one partner to have sex with (been cheated on a few times so not my thing). But it would be nice to have a friend/girlfriend who enjoys watching this, and vice versa if you are bi/curious. We could watch each other play with the same sex, and finish off by letting them watch us together...talk about a great buddy system!
As I've gotten older I find I want to explore more sexually and open to trying things. Toys, love watching porn of all kinds, even some taboo/non-mainstream, intersted in light water sports, anal play, BDSM, taboo role play etc. The worst thing we can say is "no" to something, right? Also, as it's been a LONG time since I had sex (last gf was long distance, and only saw her once a year), little out of practice...okay, a LOT out of practice, on top of being older...well, just a lot of patience will be appreciated...
Only race I believe in is the human race, and the alien races missing their interstellar exits and crashing into the rest stop known as Earth, so doesn't matter to me if you're white, black, Romulan or Wookiee, Well, maybe not a Wookiee, I do like the "smooth" look...wow, that just got interesting lol.
Physially speaking, I'll be completely honest, because we all have our favorites,yes? - I am attracted to those "vertically challenged" in height, and very busty/top heavy and proud of it :-D If you happen to have raven black hair, that's just a bonus. Age wise looking for 43 and younger, educated, that semi introverted type that is secretly pervy and playful. Yeah, something like that.
I found this passage that best describes (we could change "club" to "con" :-D) what I'd love to find if the LTR option presents itself:
"I don't want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner-in-crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust my heart, my sould and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership? I'll take that".
So if you're still reading and interested...I hope to hear from you. :-D
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