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I can dream, can’t I?

This raises an interesting question about how a person feels when someone else fantasizes about them in a way they don’t care for. I don’t mean the creepy guy hiding outside your window. Just a “friend” or partner, casting you as a character in their masturbatory fantasy that involves something you don’t like?
 
You know, Lit certainly highlights some divides among people very well. In many cases, the dislike for certain people is clear. You'd be surprised, but there are even people who dislike me. 😲 It's true. The divides can get strong where it's like the Hatfields and McCoys. Or for the Brits, the Montagues and the Capulets. Or for some of you, Tom and Jerry.

But I was talking about this with someone... no matter how badly someone is disliked, there is always someone who cares for that person and thinks they are amazing. Like, think of the person that you just dislike the most in life. Well, someone thinks that person is great or loves them very much.

Norm MacDonald has a bit called Hitler's Dog where he talks about how one of the most gruesome people of all time even had a dog that probably thought he was the shit.


So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?
 
So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?
I'm quite an easy going person. It takes a lot to get me to be even irritated with someone. If I actively dislike them it's because they have blown through every chance I gave them and I'm completely done at that point. I can excuse a lot and forgive a lot but not forever.
It's hard to see them with any kind of compassion or open mindedness at that point. Everything they've said or done is viewed through the lens of how I see them now. I don't wish any ill will on them or anything but my interest in their life is minimal and I'd prefer to move on completely.
It's unfortunate then for me that the person I dislike most in the whole world is someone I will be forever tied to. I try to keep our interactions minimal, civil and to the point but there will be no forgiving and no letting go.

People I dislike on Lit? There are some but not many. I just keep out of the way really.
I'm friends with posters that are probably not everyone's cup of tea and I'm completely fine with that just as I'm not keen on some posters who are very popular. I'm here for me at the end of the day. I talk to people I like, avoid people I don't and assume everyone else does the same.
 
How dare you speak to me like that, I am the only pure virgin on lit, I am triggered lol.

🤣 let’s break up

please baby please

You can't do this to us lmao

I already did bitch
Stop whining
Take it to PM you love/hate birds. :p
So how do you see people you don't like?
With my eyes. Cause I’m human. I like to close them and pretend they aren’t there, but it’s always disappointing when I open my eyes and they are still there fucking shit up. Zero stars.
Are you able to see them through another lens?
I’ve got a nice scope on a .308…
Or is it tough to see past that?
Depends on how many trees are in the area.
Do you just see them as the person who wronged you?
They are all imperfect just like me. The malicious ones really suck though.
Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?
I’m going to keep them at arms length and probably expect them to fuck my shit up again.
 
As someone who has bled out all over Lit, a very very long time ago. I can say that in all honestly do not give a fuck what Lit cares about me or thinks about me or how I deal with my emotions. Good or bad.

When you are in the depth of the pain, for reasons you cannot make sense of, and you have perhaps been dispatched in ways that may seem to you to be inhuman, it is no one’s job to tell you how to manage yourself. You need to work it through how you feel is best.

How the crowd handles the fallout from that? Enjoy the fucking show as always, let’s be real. Pick it apart all you want. Lit feeds of this and nothing feeds some people more than seeing a women suffer.

And like I said, I don’t give a shit.

😂

I’d prefer not to see dicks and cunts in people’s AVs too but there they are.

I’d prefer not to see people talk about the same old dull shit they’ve been talking about for the past ten years but there they go again.

I’d prefer not to see the age lines appearing on my face as the years pass but there they are.

Some things are a part of life (or in this case Lit). You can look beyond them and live, or look at them and get stuck in them. It’s all a choice.

As you (and a lot of people know), I certainly bled out all over Lit. I relate to what you’ve written here, agree with all of it, and ❤️ you.
 
So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?
I prefer not to think about people I don't like. As far as possible. No longer working in any type of steady group setting had been immensely helpful to that end. My different lens - as presumably most of us have one? - is that it's common for me to feel compassion, even for people I actively dislike.

I absolutely can carry a grudge. It's a rare occurrence, but it has happened. I never forget a conversation, which . . . is more a handicap that one would think. 😬
 
So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?
This all depends on why I don’t like them. There are lots of people I don’t like, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have value and it doesn’t mean I can’t get along with them.

I don’t believe I have ever felt wronged by a person. Not really. There’s been plenty of bullshit moments, but wronged, nah.

The grudge, again, would depend on why. If it was serious, like really, really serious I would not forgive, or forget and no one would ever find the body. 😎

On Lit? Meh. There are people I could do without, but if they say something funny or interesting I’ll still read and enjoy it. I don’t come here for the drama. 🤷‍♂️
 
So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?

people i don’t like, whatever the reason, are threats to my delicate princessy nervous system.

i generally overreact to them and i attempt to avoid them at all costs.

flight > freeze > fight.

grudge? no. but i never forget where the poison berry bushes grow, or where sirens swim.

tangentially related: my former supervisor came to work once on halloween dressed as a witch, and i laughed inappropriately loud, hard, and long. epic giggle fit.

dealing with people i don’t like, in summary, is difficult.
 
"So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?"

I haven't been on Lit long enough to not like anyone here. But in general, I try to ignore people I don't like; make no effort to see them through another lens. And because I am a Scorpio, I will always try to avenge any perceived wrongs. We hold grudges for a long time.
 
"So how do you see people you don't like? Are you able to see them through another lens? Or is it tough to see past that? Do you just see them as the person who wronged you? Do you hold a grudge forever or are you quick to let go?"

I haven't been on Lit long enough to not like anyone here. But in general, I try to ignore people I don't like; make no effort to see them through another lens. And because I am a Scorpio, I will always try to avenge any perceived wrongs. We hold grudges for a long time.
Just watch out for @Endless_Night, she has a problem with Scorpios.
Or maybe that’s scorpions? 🤔
 
Just watch out for @Endless_Night, she has a problem with Scorpios.
Or maybe that’s scorpions? 🤔
Thanks for the head's up! :)
I haven't seen any of these jokers correct this. She's a total sweetheart, and extremely easy to get along with
Despite his stupidly spelled user name, @deefalttwunnyfor is correct. @Endless_Night is a delightful sweetheart who somehow often ends up searching various types of monster porn. It seems to usually involve tentacles and it’s probably @hotwords229_A fault.

I’m convinced if I annoy the crap out of remind him enough what a pain it is to tag him, Default will eventually make use of the user renaming request they do now 😂
 
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