Looking to see who's out there

chelleb

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Hello all. I tried this once before and although the relationship didn't end up working out, I still think it was a success, so I figured I'd try it again and see what comes of it. I'm posting this both in Personals and BDSM Personals - we'll get to that later.

I'm a BBW, so if that's not your thing - move along! If you're married, engaged, or otherwise spoken for, you can move along also. Nothing against those that are, it's just not for me. If you're here looking for a hook-up, then you're reading the wrong ad. I don't do hook-ups.


If you're still reading this, thanks! It's hard for me to talk about myself, but that's sort of necessary, isn't it? LOL. I am 5 feet tall, have brown hair/eyes, and am 34. Though, in my mind, I would prefer someone close to my age, it may be negotiable. I live in New England (sorry, but with so many "bad" people out there, that's the closest I'm willing to get to where I actually live), and didn't originally have my location in this ad, because I have always believed that distance, at least for me, isn't as important as getting to know someone.

Thank you KinkyBoyUK for making the suggestion, since I'm sure not everyone is as open-minded about distance as I am. And, you're right, I am looking for something in real life, not just online. I believe talking online is great way to get to know someone and learn about them (assuming both parties are being truthful and honest), without your mind being clouded by physical attraction.

I enjoy lots of different stuff. I like the outdoors, going out, staying in and renting a movie, reading, traveling. Will try just about anything once, lol. I'm a down-to-earth person, no high maintenance stuff here, lol.

I'm a loyal, trustworthy individual and expect the same in return.

Yes, this is posted in the BDSM Personals, that's not a mistake, lol. I have an interest in it, and feel my life would not be complete without some aspect of it incorporated. I've played online with a dom enough to know I enjoy it, however I have no real life experience with it. That being said, it is not the main purpose of this ad. I much prefer to form a relationship, then see how d/s fits into it.

That's about all I can think to say about me. Thank you for reading my ad, and if you're interested, feel free to leave a reply or PM me.
 
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hey there good luck in your search!

your post gives the impression that you are looking for soemthing in real life? if im right it might help to say ion your post where you are from
 
Thanks for the vote of confidence, here's hoping they think that too! :D
 
Figured I'd give myself a bump to see if anyone was out there tonight.
 
It's been a month or so, so I thought I'd bump this once again. :)


Hope to hear from anyone that's interested!
 
This woman is one of the nicest people I've ever met. Whomever is lucky enough to get her attention should be honored:rose:
 
Thought this was in the original posting, but perhaps not. I am a female sub, looking for a male who is a dom, preferrably from the United States (I am in Massachusetts).
 
You may want to try attending a local munch or BDSM group, if you haven't already. There are several very good ones in the New England area with a network of very cool and nice people who attend - I know because I have been to them. There are a variety of single dominant males who attend, also.

Try these sites for starters to find some in your area:
http://www.bdsmresourceguide.com/munchesandgroups.html
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NEmunch_calendar/

Good luck!


Thank you, I'll check them out and see if I can get to any of them!
 
That would likely be much more productive than posting ads on here for such a long time. Meeting real people would be key to finding a real relationship. I know - I have done it.
 
New Year.................figured it was time for a bump, see what the new year will bring :D
 
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