Looking to help explore this lifestyle

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LovestoTeach

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I am a Daddy Dom and a Master. But that is only a part of who I am.

I am patient, kind, caring, smart, and understanding. I am also romantic, sarcastic, silly, and just the right amount of an evil bastard. I like to work out, read, watch tv, watch/play sports, and am a pretty big tech nerd. (aka new electronics make me drool)

I am looking for a female sub who is intelligent, caring, kind, loyal, funny, strong, fun, sexual, and driven. Age, race, body type are not major factors for me. Personality and chemistry are far more important.

I'm not looking for a one night stand. I don't want a doormat or robot. The most important thing, to me, is that you are open, willing to learn, and want to explore. I believe communication is the most important part of any relationship.

I'm looking to talk on here first then possible moving to IM/email then maybe phone/text. Meeting in person can be discussed at a later time. We should get to know each other first.

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle both online and real life for the past thirteen years. I enjoy controlling, dominating, humiliation, degrading, name calling, begging, orgasm control, exhibitionism, public play, choosing what to wear, and much more. I enjoy praising far more than punishing.

I have had subs as young as 18 and as old as 50. I have dominated experienced subs and ones that were completely new to BDSM. I have had ones that were married or even in a relationship. I enjoy helping and teaching the most. It is one of my greatest pleasures to help a new sub into the lifestyle. I believe in being safe, sane, and consensual.

I'm sure you will get the ones who tell you to "get on ur knees and worship me slut" in their first message to you. I am not one of those. I am real. I will not force anything on you or make you do anything you are not comfortable doing.

I know this is who I am and who I will be the rest of my life. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

I am also not looking for a brat. I need some who can communicate their wants and needs instead of just acting out.

Domination, for me, goes so much deeper than just kinky sex. (not that there is anything wrong with kinky sex ;) ) I get just as much enjoyment and fulfillment from petting my sub's head as she kneels at my feet as I do making her into my dirty little slut.

Feel free to message me about anything you want. Please no one liners or net speak and try to at least use proper grammar and sentences. I don't expect you to be a master at the English language but being able to put together a coherent sentence, paragraph,or message will go a long way.

Thank you for reading this and good luck in your search. :)
 
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Th person makes the Dom. Not the other way around. Do not accept being an asshole, pushy, or egotistical as being a "Dom".

Get to know the person before you get to know the Dom.
 
To the person from NC who messaged me, I can not reply back because you do not have private messages enabled.

To everyone else, I hope you had a good Christmas. :)
 
Almost 2015 bump!

One common mistake I've noticed most new subs make is rushing into a D/s relationship with a Dom they barely know. My advice is if you wouldn't date the person then why would you submit to them.

Get to know the person as well the Dom.
 
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I feel I have had what you describe on and off again (typical life/time balance) for 18 months with the same guy so unfortunatly am not responding to chat really as very happy with him, but read this and wanted to give some support as sounds like you are genuine and balanced.

Good luck!

Tilly
 
I feel I have had what you describe on and off again (typical life/time balance) for 18 months with the same guy so unfortunatly am not responding to chat really as very happy with him, but read this and wanted to give some support as sounds like you are genuine and balanced.

Good luck!

Tilly

Thank you. Good luck to you and your relationship as well. :)
 
You sound like a very rational person, and for someone who is a novice like myself, that is refreshing. Many can come across as too eager, and really don't want to teach, rather they want someone to control, instead of bond with, or get to know. To me, that seems to detract from the whole D/s philosophy, which is to form a foundation of trust, in order for a true power exchange. If you'd ever like to chat, sometime, feel free to PM me; I love to converse and learn. :)
 
Nervous

I've never had the courage to look into this before; Your message is intriguing. Are you still looking?
 
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