Hi, there.
I'm a 45 yo, single white male living in Charlotte, NC. I'm 6'3" and athletic...at least, I was, once upon a time. I still am, plus a bit of pudge (which I'm working on). Despite that, I'm still HWP, and I think, a good looking guy with a great personality. I'm educated (have doctor degree). I'm a professional in the medical arena and I care about people.
For whatever reason, I haven't had sex in roughly 2 years...over two years in fact. I'm not actually sure why, but I suppose it has to do with the fact that at some point I became disillusioned by the dating arena and how people approach it. I suppose it got easier for me to just slowly let myself slide out of it because I didn't want to deal with the amount of baggage and close-mindedness that most bring to the table.
Now, I know this doesn't describe everyone, but it seems like many online men are looking to get laid and will do anything (include lie, cheat and steal) in order to make that happen. As a result, it seems that many women have adopted a level of caution that keeps them from maintaining an open mind about opening up to a guy. And developing trust? "Fuhgetaboutit."
Again, I know this doesn't describe everyone, so please spare me the inevitable posts: "Not me!" "You're stereotyping!" "I'm the exception!" etc. etc.
So, I guess I'm looking for someone like me: A woman who is athletic, educated and undersexed. Someone, who at the very least, would like to rekindle their sexual activity. I would certainly prefer someone who is available (i.e. single, or has the permission of their SO to play) as opposed to someone who is in a sexless marriage looking to get their needs met without telling their partner because they know it will hurt them. I guess I just don't feel comfortable doing something in a situation where all parties aren't privy to what's going on.
Ultimately, I'd love to encounter someone and get to know them and actually develop a real relationship, but if I'm honest with myself, I realize that is probably unlikely in the online world of Literotica. So, I'm hoping for a physical relationship with someone who is willing to get to know each other a bit and mutually satisfy each others' needs. Those needs would be mostly physical, but if we're lucky, maybe mental as well.
Hope to hear from someone who might be interested.
Hugeflyer (handle because I'm tall and I was a trapeze catcher in a circus in a previous life)
I'm a 45 yo, single white male living in Charlotte, NC. I'm 6'3" and athletic...at least, I was, once upon a time. I still am, plus a bit of pudge (which I'm working on). Despite that, I'm still HWP, and I think, a good looking guy with a great personality. I'm educated (have doctor degree). I'm a professional in the medical arena and I care about people.
For whatever reason, I haven't had sex in roughly 2 years...over two years in fact. I'm not actually sure why, but I suppose it has to do with the fact that at some point I became disillusioned by the dating arena and how people approach it. I suppose it got easier for me to just slowly let myself slide out of it because I didn't want to deal with the amount of baggage and close-mindedness that most bring to the table.
Now, I know this doesn't describe everyone, but it seems like many online men are looking to get laid and will do anything (include lie, cheat and steal) in order to make that happen. As a result, it seems that many women have adopted a level of caution that keeps them from maintaining an open mind about opening up to a guy. And developing trust? "Fuhgetaboutit."
Again, I know this doesn't describe everyone, so please spare me the inevitable posts: "Not me!" "You're stereotyping!" "I'm the exception!" etc. etc.
So, I guess I'm looking for someone like me: A woman who is athletic, educated and undersexed. Someone, who at the very least, would like to rekindle their sexual activity. I would certainly prefer someone who is available (i.e. single, or has the permission of their SO to play) as opposed to someone who is in a sexless marriage looking to get their needs met without telling their partner because they know it will hurt them. I guess I just don't feel comfortable doing something in a situation where all parties aren't privy to what's going on.
Ultimately, I'd love to encounter someone and get to know them and actually develop a real relationship, but if I'm honest with myself, I realize that is probably unlikely in the online world of Literotica. So, I'm hoping for a physical relationship with someone who is willing to get to know each other a bit and mutually satisfy each others' needs. Those needs would be mostly physical, but if we're lucky, maybe mental as well.
Hope to hear from someone who might be interested.
Hugeflyer (handle because I'm tall and I was a trapeze catcher in a circus in a previous life)
