Looking for the perfect pet

raybear26

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A little about me:

I'm 25 , a veteran, dominant, and single. My chosen profession is engineering (mechanical), I love to tinker with things, from microwaves to cars. My favorite hobby is cooking, it's relaxing to see a marbled thick cut ribeye steak sizzling away over a fire. Charcoal grilled steak (medium rare) and fried turkey anyone?

Life should be an adventure, and sometimes I get the itch to get up and get out. I enlisted in the military straight out of high school for just that reason, and spent 5 years running around having the time of my life. Over the course of 5 years, I learned all about operational planning and risk management, and how to spend an entire paycheck in one weekend. I've even got a shooting trophy sitting around somewhere, I'm a damn good shot you see. Engineers aren't all nerds. ;).

I'm a straight to the point sort of person, there are times when I lack any sort of subtlety. Some people find that attractive, others run for the hills. I'm still a gentleman though, and I don't see any conflict with being a gentleman and a dominant, they aren't mutually exclusive.

Generally I'm a jeans and t-shirt sort of guy, casual is my natural state. If I've got to look classy, I go with a full Windsor knot, cuff links, and a fresh shine on my black mirror finish shoes.

What I'm looking for:

You should be single and available. I'm open to talking and forming friendships, but for the purposes of this thread, I'm not looking to be the other man, I'm looking to be THE Man.

I look for intelligence in a gal. I don't necessarily need someone who can keep up with rocket science, but if a girl thinks cows lay eggs, we're going to have problems.

I want to build a real bond that exists outside of this forum and IMs. As the relationship develops, you'd become a part of my social life as well, so someone in my general age range is ideal, 18- 30. A very mature and free of teen angst 18, to 30.

I like an adventurous spirit as well ( that's not the same as an all out slut mind you!). Doing something spur of the moment, sexual or not, can lead to great times. Hopping in the car and taking a trip for the weekend, or just heading downtown and wandering around till we find a place for dinner.

Physically, well beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Tall, short, slender, curvy; if you're comfortable with yourself, then I'll probably be comfortable with you. Heck, if you're a work in progress and hitting the gym , that makes two of us, and it means you care enough to work on yourself. I like that in a girl.

By the way, when I say 'perfect', I mean 'perfect for me'.

Remember when I said I get straight to the point? =)


Your views on D/s:

I'm seeking a girl who's submissive, who enjoys giving up control, but NOT someone who only gives herself over because she can't think on her own. Self-confidence is a must! No doormats who need to be beaten and trod upon to feel like they have a purpose. Submission should come from loyalty and devotion, not abject fear.

Now, if you're a masochist who enjoys rough sex, bondage, and hot wax just because it's pleasurable, then by all means assume the position!

Most importantly, it's not just in the bedroom. You won't be crawling behind me on a leash in public, but the relationship extends where ever we go. That's not to say a subbie can't be a friend as well, or that a dom can't be a gentleman. You should be comfortable with a mix of D/s and vanilla life, the best of both worlds.


Things I enjoy:

Bondage! I'm pretty handy with rope, but there's always opportunities to be creative. Sitting at dinner with some friends, you might feel me binding your wrists together under the table with a hairband.

Discipline! Being a former NCO, I know a little about instilling discipline, and if you need a lesson in proper behavior, then lessons will be taught! Achtung!

Being called Daddy. It's not an age thing, it's about the power play.

Pet play. Are you a kitten or a puppy? Fetch your leash and let's take you for a walk.

Hot wax, edgeplay, latex gloves and lube! I'm kinky,


Truth in advertising:

I'm not a tall guy, if you need a man who towers over you then you'll need to spend a lot of time on your knees. Just thought I'd get that out of the way before you start fantasizing about me. ;)
Heck, I'm not even the lean mean compact killing machine that I was a few years ago. So, I spend a lot of time running nowadays, and even more time loathing running, but someone's gotta do it, so I do.

I am kinky, deviant, and twisted six ways from Sunday. Don't be scared if I seem a little strange at times, I won't bite too hard.


Corny Quote of the Day:

The road between a Master and slave is a two way street.

I believe that. If the passion is to last past the initial heat of a new relationship, loyalty and caring have to be given by both participants.


Whew, am I done? I think I'm done. You better have read everything.
 
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Thank you all my adoring fans! I'll make sure to invite you to the wedding!

...as soon I find, chase, lasso and hogtie the bride.
 
LOL! Sounds good to me - as long as I get to buy a new hat! I spend all my time in jeans and tees these days so an excuse to buy a totally frivolous and 99.9% useless hat actually has great appeal.

Hmm, when did I get that old that a hat could be classed as fun? :eek:
 
wow, raybear! lol... it was a nicely written ad... hahaha. whooo. entertaining, funny and heartfelt. i hope some subs have answered!

BUMP

You know, gotta holla for the military ;)
 
Flattery will get you far sin! Now be vewwy vewwy quiet, I'm hunting subbies!! Hehehehe.
 
R u sure here is the best place to look? I met one of the men who own me on SlaveRegister.com. Also...most communities have dungeons and munches. The more active You are in the community, the more You will be known.

Just my 2 cents...
 
R u sure here is the best place to look? I met one of the men who own me on SlaveRegister.com. Also...most communities have dungeons and munches. The more active You are in the community, the more You will be known.

Just my 2 cents...

I don't see this forum as being any less of a starting point than any other site. Besides which, I don't want to be known in the community. I've no interest in making a name for myself, or any of the more extreme tastes that are found on those sites. I'm happy with a comfortable middle ground between D/s and vanilla life.
 
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lol.... *am very quiet* maybe put some cookies out? then slowly, whilst they gorge themselves with delicious cookies, POUNCE and hogtie. there you go! ;)
 
lol.... *am very quiet* maybe put some cookies out? then slowly, whilst they gorge themselves with delicious cookies, POUNCE and hogtie. there you go! ;)


Oh, ohh!! I LIKE that idea!! Especially the pounce bit, that's a nice touch! They'd never see it coming, not with a plate full of soft baked chocolate chip (with plain M&Ms) cookies in front of them!
 
Oh, ohh!! I LIKE that idea!! Especially the pounce bit, that's a nice touch! They'd never see it coming, not with a plate full of soft baked chocolate chip (with plain M&Ms) cookies in front of them!

mmmmmmmmmm I like cookies... :rolleyes:
 
Did I list that on my requirements?

'Must be able to bake delicious cookies. Soft, moist, & chewy. Looking good in an apron and oven mitts a plus.'
 
Ahem.. <Homer Simpson voice from the Treehouse of Horrors episode> Mmmm, erotic cakes...
 
see?????

ima fuckin genius. You owe me ;)

*secretly bakes cookies, brownies, and cakes... and puts them out and giggles evilly, camera ready for the exotic animal POUNCE*
 
Wait, how do you make erotic brownies? I mean, certainly ooey gooey brownies are kind of sexy, but it's no boob-cake. Mmm... boob-cake... *drools Homer-style*
 
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