looking for the impossible in female form

[glBock]

When I review again, what kind of a woman I look for, and what I like to do and experience with you, it becomes ever clearer to me, what an impossible search I am undertaking here. That is, if you are the usual kind of Lit female.

But in case you are a more old-fashioned kind of woman, who still remembers what the world looked like, before so-called "social" media broke into communications between human beings, then perhaps what I look for is not all that amazing.

I summarized my desires and aims in my two signature posts. You should refrain from clicking on their links, unless you are prepared to spend some time reading. And - - more than that - -thinking about my posts, understanding them, and reflecting on your own desires and your own personality.

If you discover a lot of resonance within you with the words of my posts, I suggest you send me a PM. And we explore together our chances of connecting with each other. Since I am looking for a rather deep connection, it's fair to start getting involved with each other only, when we see realistic chances of getting there. 
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[AnAmericanDarling]

Maybe the reason that it's impossible to find what you're looking for is that you're an asshole that expects perfection.

 

[Lindsay_O]

Maybe the reason that it's impossible to find what you're looking for is that you're an asshole that expects perfection.

Oh snap.

 

[Jada59]

Oh snap.

Snapadoodledoo!

 

[Lindsay_O]

Snapadoodledoo!

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[glBock]

understanding an ad is a tough problem

Thank you for your highly thoughtful responses, ladies. And I see the one of you, who actually voiced a thought of more than 5 words in a row – my respect! – possesses the gift of being able to look into my head also, and to recognize immediately what the core of my problem is.

I am so glad you are sharing your valuable insights with me, thanks again!

Just too bad none of you realized that my ad was not addressed to any of you. You could have found out by actually reading it. But don't worry, reading is not a skill most men here look for.
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[Jada59]

Thank you for your highly thoughtful responses, ladies. And I see the one of you, who actually voiced a thought of more than 5 words in a row – my respect! – possesses the gift of being able to look into my head also, and to recognize immediately what the core of my problem is.

I am so glad you are sharing your valuable insights with me, thanks again!

Just too bad none of you realized that my ad was not addressed to any of you. You could have found out by actually reading it. But don't worry, reading is not a skill most men here look for.
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There you go. You just proved our point.

 

[GoldRogue]

Just a Thought

Thank you for your highly thoughtful responses, ladies. And I see the one of you, who actually voiced a thought of more than 5 words in a row – my respect! – possesses the gift of being able to look into my head also, and to recognize immediately what the core of my problem is.

I am so glad you are sharing your valuable insights with me, thanks again!

Just too bad none of you realized that my ad was not addressed to any of you. You could have found out by actually reading it. But don't worry, reading is not a skill most men here look for.
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Pretty sure even if that perfect woman actually stumbles along and reads one of your many long rambling posts, gets intrigued enough to look a bit further, she's going to be totally turned off by what an asshole you are being to ladies like Jada and Lindsay.

 

[glBock]

Pretty sure even if that perfect woman actually stumbles along and reads one of your many long rambling posts, gets intrigued enough to look a bit further, she's going to be totally turned off by what an asshole you are being to ladies like Jada and Lindsay.

I know that debating this with you and Jada is a total waste of time. Which will lead nowhere, really. People who cannot read, nor listen, nor even try understanding anything, which goes beyond their own narrow comprehension, are not people I aim to reach with these "terrible" ads of mine.

But what never ceases to amaze me is, why sometimes people gather on threads I start, who comprehend absolutely NOTHING, and still they feel a compulsion to "contribute" something. I ask myself, why don’t they simple respond to ads they do understand, or join conversations they are able to follow?
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[Jada59]

I know that debating this with you and Jada is a total waste of time. Which will lead nowhere, really. People who cannot read, nor listen, nor even try understanding anything, which goes beyond their own narrow comprehension, are not people I aim to reach with these "terrible" ads of mine.

But what never ceases to amaze me is, why sometimes people gather on threads I start, who comprehend absolutely NOTHING, and still they feel a compulsion to "contribute" something. I ask myself, why don’t they simple respond to ads they do understand, or join conversations they are able to follow?
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Yeah. Just keep telling yourself that!

 

[bluekitty69]

Yeah. Just keep telling yourself that!

Wow what a prince! So why is he not taken?...asking for a frenemy!...

 

[Jada59]

Wow what a prince! So why is he not taken?...asking for a frenemy!...

*High five*

 

[glBock]

ads with (at least some) content

Apparently the severest crime one can commit here on the Personals board is post an ad with content. Does not even have to be very profound content, just a few thoughts that get readers to think a bit is enough.

No sooner professional hecklers here spot such an ad, will they'll start spreading their venom over it. Even if they have nothing to say, they can just write "I concur with the above".

The point you raised in your post, GR (after condemning my style of ads, because it' not your own, I suppose) makes no sense either: a woman who refrains from contacting me, because she reads that I retort to hecklers, instead of pussyfooting them, is not a woman I would want to meet anyway.

I am looking not for lemmings, who check out the number of "likes" I receive first, to tell her whether my character might be OK. But for independently thinking women, able to figure that out by themselves.
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[glBock]

Maybe the reason that it's impossible to find what you're looking for is that you're an asshole that expects perfection.

I am certainly not looking for you, Darling. An adolescent, who has never understood yet, how presidential impeachments work

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

You know, I was going to stay quiet but I will leave you with this thought...responding to every negative comment about you may not be in your best interest. It gives the reader added information about how you treat others that may not favor you.

 

[DeorlingDraegunn]

Apparently the severest crime one can commit here on the Personals board is post an ad with content. Does not even have to be very profound content, just a few thoughts that get readers to think a bit is enough.

No sooner professional hecklers here spot such an ad, will they'll start spreading their venom over it. Even if they have nothing to say, they can just write "I concur with the above".

The point you raised in your post, GR (after condemning my style of ads, because it' not your own, I suppose) makes no sense either: a woman who refrains from contacting me, because she reads that I retort to hecklers, instead of pussyfooting them, is not a woman I would want to meet anyway.

I am looking not for lemmings, who check out the number of "likes" I receive first, to tell her whether my character might be OK. But for independently thinking women, able to figure that out by themselves.
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In truth, he is not treating anyone in a bad manner. His ability to see outside of the box which society has created it's something which is to be applauded.

I will take a guess if highly intelligent, and knows the value of things society pushed aside because it doesn't fit into their box. Or there coinciding issue if it takes more than two syllables to express our think about something out takes too much effort for those who are so stuck in the matrix to see past the end of their nose.

I am female and truly would like to find someone who views life in the way he does. I don't fit into the box of society and I shall never fit into it. I have spent most of my life alone because society can't see past the fact that I don't think like them.

I would be interested in someone like him in my life, I'm just not looking to be a third wheel. Not much for being the side chick.

As for all of the individuals who seem not able to hold an intellectual conversation, and are on LIT for the bar sexual needs we have as humans, but really aren't looking for anything more. This is not the post for you, and by wasting time being a nasty troller attempting to think you're better than him because he doesn't fit into your box. You should move on and find someone else to play your misery loves company routine. It should be obvious he won't cower at your attempt to built him into a corner out of sight. Go back to your corner and continue to seek your lack of connection hook ups, and let those who truly want to have something more on their own path of success you will never ever understand.

Kudos to you Sir.

 

[glBock]

Thank You!

DD, I think you sincerely for your public support of my original post.

It's amazing what kind of understanding can happen, if one actually reads ad here with an open mind.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I never treated Mr. glBock rude nor unkind. The advice could be taken or left on these pages. There are some that measure a person in how they treat those they are indifferent with. To each is own. DeorlingDraegunn, I do hope you find what you are searching for in him. Mr. glBock, again, best wishes to you in your search.

 

[Misha_Davis]

Just to follow on what DeorlingDraegunn said.

In defense of glBock, who doesn't need anyone defending him (much less me), he defends himself quite well, he's a man who knows just what he's looking for. Most won't fall into that group where he's casting his net, and that's fine. Some people may not like the way he goes about it, maybe he's too outspoken for some, is that really a bad thing? If you don't like his ad, then fine, go about your business. For some people to resort to name calling because they don't agree with how his ad is worded, or just don't like him, is just hurtful. I don't understand how people can get some sort of satisfaction out of insulting others in such a mean-spirited manner. Maybe I'm just too naive or old-fashioned, but that's how I am.

In full disclosure, I've corresponded with glBock in the past. Things didn't work out between us, but that was totally my fault, not his. It's my loss. If you're sincerely interested in his ad, then let him know. If you're not interested, is it such a hard thing to do if you just move onto another thread rather than making a negative comment that serves no purpose?

 

[glBock]

thank you all

A sincere thank you note to all three of you, Misha, DD, and Caramel. I appreciate your chiming in, after my "defending myself".

I wish each one of you a lot of luck in your endeavors. And a bright future with the right kind of Lit contacts, for each of you. I bid you well!

 

[Nanci47]

I thought he was going to say he was looking for a woman with a cock. Ha!