Looking for THE guy

Awallflower

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Hi - I have browsed around here for awhile and thought I’d get an account and do a post. Female in my thirties living with a long-term partner.

Looking to develop a long-term, strictly online, relationship (a good mixture of kinky and friendship). I think like most people, the more we get along and know each other the better the relationship.

What I am looking for:

A male who is a switch – but who really likes to worship a female. So yes I want you to worship me. I’d like for you to be thinking of me day and night, and I especially want every load of cum to be for me. I like a guy who wants to figure out what makes me cum and is eager to help make it happen whenever they can. I want someone who is willing to share pictures at some point (yes including face – once we trust each other). I like voice chatting and we will do that, but mostly messaging. My preference of messaging is on Skype, and it’ll be hard for me to be flexible on that (but maybe you can convince me otherwise). I prefer someone in a long-term relationship so we can relate to the struggles of life in that way – maybe have a similar sense of loneliness while never being alone. Although, if you are single and you don’t mind that I’m not we can still give it a go. I like a guy who is sensitive but assertive. Who is mindful and likes authentic people. Where you live, age, and what you look like isn’t super important, but of course having a sort of attraction to each other is always helpful.

About me: I’m super kinky and super open minded. I have some preferences, like I tend to be more submissive when I am super horny. I am usually sweet but always sassy. I am a working professional and I know what I want. I’m not looking for any guy who wants to play. I’m looking for THE guy and hopefully you are looking for me. I’m happy to share much more about me as we get to know each other.

If this sparked your interest message me on here and we can see if we hit it off and move to skype.
 
Hey good luck with this. Perhaps it would be best in the BDSM personals though since it seems that the guy should really be a switch.

Refreshing to see others looking for something more than just a quick fix as well :) Sounds relatively similar to my Domme and myself except that I don't switch at all.
 
Hey good luck with this. Perhaps it would be best in the BDSM personals though since it seems that the guy should really be a switch.

Refreshing to see others looking for something more than just a quick fix as well :) Sounds relatively similar to my Domme and myself except that I don't switch at all.

I don’t really need it to be a Dom/sub traditional type relationship but more that they might be capable of taking control or vice versa. And there’s only so much you can say in one post without starting to drone one.

I don’t think what I’m looking for is quite fitting for the BDSM personals - a meaningful connection is valued over all other things.

Thanks for your input though.
 
Hi - I have browsed around here for awhile and thought I’d get an account and do a post. Female in my thirties living with a long-term partner.

Looking to develop a long-term, strictly online, relationship (a good mixture of kinky and friendship). I think like most people, the more we get along and know each other the better the relationship.

What I am looking for:

A male who is a switch – but who really likes to worship a female. So yes I want you to worship me. I’d like for you to be thinking of me day and night, and I especially want every load of cum to be for me. I like a guy who wants to figure out what makes me cum and is eager to help make it happen whenever they can. I want someone who is willing to share pictures at some point (yes including face – once we trust each other). I like voice chatting and we will do that, but mostly messaging. My preference of messaging is on Skype, and it’ll be hard for me to be flexible on that (but maybe you can convince me otherwise). I prefer someone in a long-term relationship so we can relate to the struggles of life in that way – maybe have a similar sense of loneliness while never being alone. Although, if you are single and you don’t mind that I’m not we can still give it a go. I like a guy who is sensitive but assertive. Who is mindful and likes authentic people. Where you live, age, and what you look like isn’t super important, but of course having a sort of attraction to each other is always helpful.

About me: I’m super kinky and super open minded. I have some preferences, like I tend to be more submissive when I am super horny. I am usually sweet but always sassy. I am a working professional and I know what I want. I’m not looking for any guy who wants to play. I’m looking for THE guy and hopefully you are looking for me. I’m happy to share much more about me as we get to know each other.

If this sparked your interest message me on here and we can see if we hit it off and move to skype.

dear wall flower, I loved reading your ad, and I would have responded, had I not run into my soulmate a shortwhile ago. So We are givig it a go right now.

But I post this, to wish you all the luck you need, to make your desires bear fruit. I know it won't be easy; I mean achieving a long-term relationship on the basis of what you are listing, but it certainly is doable. I had pulled off before, and I hope to pull it off again with my recently met sweetheart.

And you ought to be able to pull it off also, since you impress me as a woman with serious intentions for a kind of happiness two people have to work for a bit.

I wish you lots of luck; wallflower. Although I am sure, you are anythng but one.
 
RIP - whatever will we do? clearly I’d have to pick some other platform if I wanted to chat off here
Microsoft moved everything to Teams. So you can use that.

My preferred messaging app is Signal.

But I use discord and telegram as well
 
Thanks for the ideas. I have yet to find someone I want to chat with outside of here…. Yet. But will reference this list if I find what I’m looking for.
Good luck in your search. I am also looking. Would loke to have meaningful online relationship and become friends as well as Dom/sub and chat about every day things as well as the dynamic. Unfortunately im not a switch.

I hope you find what you are looking for
 
If you're still looking, I'm
poly
very kinky
bisexual
Dom leaning switch
Also, I have ADHD and while irl I try to regulate myself in that regard, I tend to be obsessed with kinky people I feel a connection to - so if we were to have a good vibe I would very likely obsess in the way you described. I have lots of points in your post I would argue are describing me / indicate our wants and needs matching. I'm happy to explain every one of them, should you want me to do so :] Would love a message!
Thanks for the ideas. I have yet to find someone I want to chat with outside of here…. Yet. But will reference this list if I find what I’m looking for.
 
Thanks for the ideas. I have yet to find someone I want to chat with outside of here…. Yet. But will reference this list if I find what I’m looking for.
Wallflower lets talk and see how we get along and become good friends. Then move eto Skype- Teams mmmm
 
I know this post is old, and you've probably found someone already, but in case you haven't, I sound like might be a good match for you, minus being in a relationship and Skype. Feel free to message me if you want and we'll see if we vibe
 
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