Looking for sub women or possibly couples...

Jaydoes

Really Experienced
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I'm a 47 year old white dominant male...in decent shape and who is intelligent, imaginative, creative, caring, and who loves to help women find new ways to challenge themselves and explore their fantasies...either in the real world or via online.
I'm looking for just about anyone who is submissive and interested in exploring their submissive side. Of course, I'm always looking for ladies interested in real time submission and i'm open to the possibility of a long term relationship.
However, I live in an area where I don't usually find liberal minded, willing to explore type women and in a small town those who are are afraid someone will find out about their secret kinky side, so I'm willing to explore online as well.
I'm not a hardcore dom so if you're looking for someone only to hurt you or abuse you, I'm probably not your guy. I believe that true pleasure is most likely to be found when you combine all the aspects of the human nature...not just the physical, but also the intellectual, the emotional, and even the psychological.....and I'm looking for women who aren't afraid to exlore every part of their psyche...though I'm entirely willing to go at a slow pace for those who might be new to the world of bdsm.
Ideally, I would find a woman who lives near me who is interested in an ongoing relationship and if I found that person a one-on-one relationship is both preferable and most desired.
I'm also interested in local girls or couples who are interested in having regular sessions with me whether its an ongoing relationship or just a physical thing, it could still be fun. I'm fine with respecting limits and will never push someone into doing something they didn't want to do unless they tell me ahead of time that's what they want to happen. It doesn't matter to me if you want a no-limits session of hardcore bdsm fun and sex or whether you just want a specific event to happen such as just spanking or just bondage or whatever. I do like to push limits but I want you to leave thinking omg! that was hot! and not....omg! I would never do that again! That way...I can figure you'll eventually come back.
If I can't find anyone local or who's willing to come see me for fun. I'm interested in online relationships but they have to be more than just a fantasy thing. I want to know you as a person and have an agreed upon level of control. You'll find me highly intelligent and imaginative, experienced at this sort of thing, and able to keep you constantly wet or horny if you are willing to give me enough control for that to be able to happen.
The one thing I'm not interested in...is women or couples who "top from the bottom". If you think submission is you telling me what to do and how to do it and refusing to do anything else...don't waste our time.
Now having said that, I'm very much of a people person and anyone who wants to pm or email me and discuss bdsm related things are welcome to write. Hopefully, I'll find a good submissive match or at least some playful new friends but even if all I get is some interesting conversation out of it...it'd still be worth it.
Ladies and couples, I want to encourage you to write if you are new or inexperienced and still learning. I'll be glad to discuss things with you, help you out, give advice and hopefully you'll like it so much that you'll want me to do more for you.
For you control freaks out there who love to explore being controlled. I'm experienced and I'll take the time to get to know you, so we can make it as hot as possible and in that case it wouldn't even matter if we ever met so long as we can have some fun.
But like I said...anyone write....I'll be glad to talk!
 
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