Looking for something special...

MindfulBeauty

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By the date on my profile, one might think I'm a newbie around here - when the truth is I'm a very experienced member of these forums. I took some time away and now I'm back, at least for now, looking for something special - Love, a connection, companionship.

Yes, I know, this place was not build for what I'm in search of. However, I've made many close friends through this site and feel at home with its like-minded members. So what have I got to lose? :)

A little about me. I'm 30 years old, white, brown hair and eyes, olive skin, 5'3", married, and mother to a very young child. (And here is where I lose the interest of 99% of those who have read this far) My marriage is a crumbling mess on it's last leg. If sex was all my marriage was missing then I wouldn't be seeking the things I am. I'm missing a connection. I long for someone who I can call my best friend and lover. I'm in a complicated situation so I don't expect Prince Charming to appear and fall in love with me - though the door is always open for that possibility :) - but love has many different levels.

A little about you. If you are still reading - thank you! I think it's fair to describe the type of person I'm looking for. I will say age isn't a huge factor, but to be realistic - mid twenties to mid thirties. I'm attracted to intelligence and a great smile. You don't have to be a Dom, but I appreciate assertiveness - I guess that's the "girl who wants to be treasured and protected" side of me. Looks vary and sometimes a great personally makes a guy with average looks into a total hottie :) but I relate to those who simply care about being healthy.

I've been completely open with who I am and what I'm looking for in this ad, so please don't contact me if you are looking for something else ("hey, wanna watch me stroke one out on cam?"). I know I'll get responses from those who don't understand my situation and think I'm being foolish - maybe I am, but it's worth a try.

I know this is a shot in the dark. A shot in a place full of porn and fetishes (which are delightful in their own right). I hold no great expectations but hope for surprises.
 
I can't relate to everything you must be going through, so I won't pretend I can. This post seemed very open and honest and I am sure that you will find a Prince Charming on here somewhere. You sound like an amazing person and I hope you find the right guy. All the best, and if you would like to chat feel free to send a pm.
Good luck!
 
Thanks guys! I'm not here looking for pity :) but thanks for the kindness.

I've receive a few interesting PMs this afternoon so at least I know a few people are interested enough to read all the way through :)
 
Quick tip

Please don't send a message with just "hi how are you?". It might not seem like much, but I seriously put my heart out there with this personal ad - it would be nice to get just a tad bit more in response...
 
Please don't send a message with just "hi how are you?". It might not seem like much, but I seriously put my heart out there with this personal ad - it would be nice to get just a tad bit more in response...

I'm not who you're looking for, but I do hope you find him. Your combination of confidence and openness deserves to be rewarded.
 
Thank you all for the many responses. Though, most didn't really read what I was looking for and just messaged me because I was fresh meat :). Either way, no one seems to be looking for exactly what I am. I'll keep my eyes and heart open... Just wanted to thank you all for your kind messages.
 
Update: I was taken on a date today - from across the country - via texts, phones, and video. It was the sweetest thing! My faith was certainly renewed :)
 
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