Life has moved on, and I find myself looking again.
First a little bit about me. I am 21 years old. I’m not currently in college due to fanatical difficulties, but hope to return soon. But I do work as an early childhood teacher. While I wouldn’t consider myself a newbie, I don’t have too much experience in this area but I have a reasonably active imagination
. I love…LOVE…to read and lately the books that have drawn me are ones with Dominance/submissive/control undertones. One of my favorite books is “Bound” by Sasha White.
I am usually the leader in the various situations life throws at me. This as well as many other life circumstances has created something of a contradiction in me. Although I seem to be the natural leader, take charge relatively easily, am the guardian for many, all I want to do is find someone to take that role with me, someone I can trust enough to let go with. I’m really very shy (at least on some topics, and more so when just getting to know someone) and blush very easily, though most people wouldn’t think so.
This leads directly into what I am looking for. First I have to say, I have to say that I have no intention of moving this into real life any time in the foreseeable future. Although this does limit things I do not feel that it hinders the formation of a real relationship. Who knows what can develop.
A little bit more specifically, I am looking for a Dominant man who is older than me, single, and has some experience with Dominance and Submission. I realize that online is not the real world and that that comes first, for both of us, but at the same time being ignored or dropped and then picked up again are not options. I know the value of communication and I expect that he does as well and it to be a two way street.
Although our communication will begin through Lit, I am looking for some sort of actual relationship. Something that is not based solely on sexual activities/fantasies. Something where we both can discus our days, good movies, and life in general. I would like to be able to consider the person I move further with a friend, and be considered one in return. But when it comes to Dom/sub subjects (well actually with all things) it would be wonderful to find someone that truly makes an effort to understand me as well as make an effort to let me understand them. That they know that the biggest arousal center in the body is the brain, and know how to use it. Someone who can read between the lines, understand both what is being said and what isn’t. Someone who understands the value of trust and doesn’t think that it is entitled to them or easily earned. Someone who knows patience is a virtue (even when I don’t
) and that in the long run it will be worth it.
There’s probably a lot more, but I can’t think of anything else right now, and this seems long enough. Life is a little hectic right but I will get back to you as soon as I can. There is a better chance of me responding to serious pm’s, not just one liners. I have just told you something about me and what I’m interested in, now please give me the same courtesy.
So...Looking forward to hearing from you
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I'll add it here too for those who don't read the rest...
If you would like a response then please send more than 3 sentences, nothing with commands in it, and you just read a bit about me….now why not share a bit about you?…and understand we would start talking through lit pm’s…not jumping to e-mails or chatting.
Sorry if this is too forward for some of you, but it’s just really annoying.
Have a great night
s
First a little bit about me. I am 21 years old. I’m not currently in college due to fanatical difficulties, but hope to return soon. But I do work as an early childhood teacher. While I wouldn’t consider myself a newbie, I don’t have too much experience in this area but I have a reasonably active imagination
. I love…LOVE…to read and lately the books that have drawn me are ones with Dominance/submissive/control undertones. One of my favorite books is “Bound” by Sasha White. I am usually the leader in the various situations life throws at me. This as well as many other life circumstances has created something of a contradiction in me. Although I seem to be the natural leader, take charge relatively easily, am the guardian for many, all I want to do is find someone to take that role with me, someone I can trust enough to let go with. I’m really very shy (at least on some topics, and more so when just getting to know someone) and blush very easily, though most people wouldn’t think so.
This leads directly into what I am looking for. First I have to say, I have to say that I have no intention of moving this into real life any time in the foreseeable future. Although this does limit things I do not feel that it hinders the formation of a real relationship. Who knows what can develop.
A little bit more specifically, I am looking for a Dominant man who is older than me, single, and has some experience with Dominance and Submission. I realize that online is not the real world and that that comes first, for both of us, but at the same time being ignored or dropped and then picked up again are not options. I know the value of communication and I expect that he does as well and it to be a two way street.
Although our communication will begin through Lit, I am looking for some sort of actual relationship. Something that is not based solely on sexual activities/fantasies. Something where we both can discus our days, good movies, and life in general. I would like to be able to consider the person I move further with a friend, and be considered one in return. But when it comes to Dom/sub subjects (well actually with all things) it would be wonderful to find someone that truly makes an effort to understand me as well as make an effort to let me understand them. That they know that the biggest arousal center in the body is the brain, and know how to use it. Someone who can read between the lines, understand both what is being said and what isn’t. Someone who understands the value of trust and doesn’t think that it is entitled to them or easily earned. Someone who knows patience is a virtue (even when I don’t
) and that in the long run it will be worth it. There’s probably a lot more, but I can’t think of anything else right now, and this seems long enough
. Life is a little hectic right but I will get back to you as soon as I can. There is a better chance of me responding to serious pm’s, not just one liners. I have just told you something about me and what I’m interested in, now please give me the same courtesy. So...Looking forward to hearing from you
-----
I'll add it here too for those who don't read the rest...
If you would like a response then please send more than 3 sentences, nothing with commands in it, and you just read a bit about me….now why not share a bit about you?…and understand we would start talking through lit pm’s…not jumping to e-mails or chatting.
Sorry if this is too forward for some of you, but it’s just really annoying.
Have a great night
s
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