Looking for someone who understands [34/M]

[JMR85]

Hi everyone!

Years ago, I used to post pictures here and have a huge amount of fun doing it.

Then, I fell in love.

I deleted all my posts, all my pictures, and vowed to put this all behind me.

It's been five happy years...but, sexually, I feel unfulfilled.

I want to post again. I want to play again. I want to exercise the kinks that my SO just isn't in to. I'm finding it tough.

All I want is to find someone I can chat to who understands. I stress I'm not looking to cheat - I'm just after conversation and friendship.

If anyone would like to talk, send me a PM and we can exchange contact details.

Have a lovely day!

 

[Suthrngrac]

Know the feeling. My innerfreak has been banished for almost 8 years now. Hubbs just don’t wanna play the way I like to play. I mentioned blindfold and being tied up the other night and got a look of daggers, lol

 

[tomc55]

I know you're pain. My wife gave me some mixed signals when you but always ended up. Trading me as a disapproving father figure

Know the feeling. My innerfreak has been banished for almost 8 years now. Hubbs just don’t wanna play the way I like to play. I mentioned blindfold and being tied up the other night and got a look of daggers, lol

 

[JMR85]

It's good to know there's others out there in the same or similar situations. I feel incredibly selfish feeling this way, but it's difficult to shake.

How does everyone else find ways to cope?

 

[Jada59]

Very sorry. I turned to writing. That helped me!

 

[JMR85]

Very sorry. I turned to writing. That helped me!

I've tried writing a little. I'm currently working on a JOI script that I may ask someone to record one day. Something more interactive than the boring "Stroke....stroke....stroke...."

 

[Jada59]

I've tried writing a little. I'm currently working on a JOI script that I may ask someone to record one day. Something more interactive than the boring "Stroke....stroke....stroke...."

Very nice!

 

[JMR85]

Very nice!

Always up for sending it out for critiques!

I'm stuck at a wedding tonight where I know no one. Save me.

 

[BudgieSmuggler]

It's good to know there's others out there in the same or similar situations. I feel incredibly selfish feeling this way, but it's difficult to shake.

How does everyone else find ways to cope?

There are undoubtedly a few who are lucky enough to get it all. The ones who don't cope divorce and try again, from my vantage point most retries I've seen seem to miss as well, but the parties have usually learnt something from past failures that lets them cope second time around.

How you cope depends greatly on what is most important to you.

 

[JMR85]

There are undoubtedly a few who are lucky enough to get it all. The ones who don't cope divorce and try again, from my vantage point most retries I've seen seem to miss as well, but the parties have usually learnt something from past failures that lets them cope second time around.

How you cope depends greatly on what is most important to you.

I heard a lovely piece of wisdom earlier. Relationships are almost always able to change. It is better to work through someone you've invested in rather than start from scratch.

I'm going to hold on to that for now.

 

[Lotus_Blossom_]

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[JMR85]

I like that. Thank you for sharing.

Always glad to be of service

But credit goes to a new friend who reached out.