james_uk79
Virgin
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- May 14, 2012
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Looking for someone genuine to chat with 
Hi,
I'm looking for someone to hold a decent conversation with, hopefully someone in a similar situation to myself, male or female. Im a 32 yr old guy from Australia, and this is my story so far:
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 7 years, I have always had a high sex drive and very openminded about sex. I have been particularly interested in swinging but never mentioned it to my partner. We have a pretty exciting sex life but I've always believed she would prefer it be exclusively between the two of us. Over the last 18 months a few things have happened that have made me think things could be different.
It all started on holiday in bali, me and my partner went for a massage. The 2 masseuses were young balinese girls very giggly and friendly. As we were being massaged the young girl massaging my gf removed her towel leaving her completely naked on her stomach. The girls were giggling and speaking in indonesian, and the masseuse began to massage my gf's inner thighs and unknown to me until afterwards was touching her pussy.
When we got out my gf told me what had happened and how shocked she was. When we returned to the hotel I was turned on by the whole thing and made a move on my missus, surprised to find she was soaking wet in her knickers. We fucked like mad and she admitted to me it had really turned her on. For weeks afterwards we made love fantasising about it and she said that she felt sexually attracted to some women as a result.
Feeling excited at this new turn of events i began wondering if things might go further, but did not want to push her. About six months later we were out with a couple we know. We got back to our house after a big night out, all very drunk. The male friend was feeling worse for wear and went off to bed. The 3 of us stayed up playing drinking games. seeing my opportunity i suggested spin the bottle.
Eventually, with my heart in my mouth with fear and excitement i suggested both the girls kiss. There had been a sexual tension in the air since the guy had gone to bed, and from that kiss they both started making out and feeling each other through their clothes. Eventually clothes were removed, and my gf ended up going down on her friend. I was masturbating naked, watching when my gf beckoned me over. I put my cock into our friends mouth and it was the most amazing sexual experience I ever had. Everyone came a couple of times and it was amazing.
To cut a long story short, we never heard from these friends again, which we were very upset about as they were very good friends.
From this point we started talking about all kinds of things, fantasies and desires. She said she wanted to try two guys, swapping with a couple etc. We were nervous about meeting people so we started role playing. We bought all kinds of sex toys to simulate the third or even fourth person, and would get really turned on. When we went out my gf would chat guys up in a bar while i watched her, then we would go home and have amazing sex. She also started to fantasise about sleeping with guys from different races and trying a big black cock.
All this was so exciting and we were so horny to do these things for real. I joined a website for swinging, and after a few months and being very careful we found a younger couple, who were also inexperienced to play with. We met them twice socially and decided we wanted to take things further. We organised a hotel and on the way to meet them my gf had a last minute change of heart.
I was understanding and said it was ok, which it is. She has since said that she isn't comfortable with the swinging idea, and i respect that. We still fantasise and role play but not to the extremeness we did before.
The problem for me is I'm still really excited by all this, very horny and willing. I've seen how dirty she can be and want more. I'd never cheat on her so I'm kinda stuck now, forever wondering
I'm thinking maybe if i have an outlet, like someone to chat to who isn't your usual internet person just after naked pics etc, or even someone to have some online fun with, it might elevate some of my built up sexual energy
Any way, if you'd like to chat, please feel free to contact me on here.
Bye
Hi,
I'm looking for someone to hold a decent conversation with, hopefully someone in a similar situation to myself, male or female. Im a 32 yr old guy from Australia, and this is my story so far:
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 7 years, I have always had a high sex drive and very openminded about sex. I have been particularly interested in swinging but never mentioned it to my partner. We have a pretty exciting sex life but I've always believed she would prefer it be exclusively between the two of us. Over the last 18 months a few things have happened that have made me think things could be different.
It all started on holiday in bali, me and my partner went for a massage. The 2 masseuses were young balinese girls very giggly and friendly. As we were being massaged the young girl massaging my gf removed her towel leaving her completely naked on her stomach. The girls were giggling and speaking in indonesian, and the masseuse began to massage my gf's inner thighs and unknown to me until afterwards was touching her pussy.
When we got out my gf told me what had happened and how shocked she was. When we returned to the hotel I was turned on by the whole thing and made a move on my missus, surprised to find she was soaking wet in her knickers. We fucked like mad and she admitted to me it had really turned her on. For weeks afterwards we made love fantasising about it and she said that she felt sexually attracted to some women as a result.
Feeling excited at this new turn of events i began wondering if things might go further, but did not want to push her. About six months later we were out with a couple we know. We got back to our house after a big night out, all very drunk. The male friend was feeling worse for wear and went off to bed. The 3 of us stayed up playing drinking games. seeing my opportunity i suggested spin the bottle.
Eventually, with my heart in my mouth with fear and excitement i suggested both the girls kiss. There had been a sexual tension in the air since the guy had gone to bed, and from that kiss they both started making out and feeling each other through their clothes. Eventually clothes were removed, and my gf ended up going down on her friend. I was masturbating naked, watching when my gf beckoned me over. I put my cock into our friends mouth and it was the most amazing sexual experience I ever had. Everyone came a couple of times and it was amazing.
To cut a long story short, we never heard from these friends again, which we were very upset about as they were very good friends.
From this point we started talking about all kinds of things, fantasies and desires. She said she wanted to try two guys, swapping with a couple etc. We were nervous about meeting people so we started role playing. We bought all kinds of sex toys to simulate the third or even fourth person, and would get really turned on. When we went out my gf would chat guys up in a bar while i watched her, then we would go home and have amazing sex. She also started to fantasise about sleeping with guys from different races and trying a big black cock.
All this was so exciting and we were so horny to do these things for real. I joined a website for swinging, and after a few months and being very careful we found a younger couple, who were also inexperienced to play with. We met them twice socially and decided we wanted to take things further. We organised a hotel and on the way to meet them my gf had a last minute change of heart.
I was understanding and said it was ok, which it is. She has since said that she isn't comfortable with the swinging idea, and i respect that. We still fantasise and role play but not to the extremeness we did before.
The problem for me is I'm still really excited by all this, very horny and willing. I've seen how dirty she can be and want more. I'd never cheat on her so I'm kinda stuck now, forever wondering
I'm thinking maybe if i have an outlet, like someone to chat to who isn't your usual internet person just after naked pics etc, or even someone to have some online fun with, it might elevate some of my built up sexual energy

Any way, if you'd like to chat, please feel free to contact me on here.
Bye
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