My sex life (professional midwestern male) has progressed from vanilla to kinky over the last few years, but I have yet to find that special woman with an interest in some strap-on fun. I've tried raves, gothic bars and the such, but I haven'e been able to meet that special woman ready to explore some new things. Where do these woman exist? Are there any out there? Are lesbians willing to explore these sort of kinky positions with men?