Looking for some input

[Erogenouszone]

Hello Literoticans, I am going through a difficult situation that I haven't spoken to anyone about, save our marriage counselor. I was hoping to hear some feedback from the forum, as there are some "varied" perspectives posted here and I need to see some. Although this may not be the place to look for answers, I'm not really looking for answers necessarily, just your feedback. About 6 months ago, my wife of 20 years had a man from the past show up and she fucked him numerous times, and liked it, and ended up falling for him. He on the other hand, has moved on, probably always his plan. I have been through the feelings of feeling second best, unloved, inadequate, etc. and we are currently in counseling trying to determine if we stay together or throw in the towel. I was interested in your thoughts on this situation. At times I feel as though I'm being cool, other times I feel like an idiot for staying, I would welcome your thoughts.

 

[ArthurW]

hi

She fell for an old flame so. Its not you it was him and old need of hers. He is gone. He needed her to feel like a man again. She will need holding because he never cared it was all to getting his rocks off. The real question for both of you is do you both love each other? I will chat with you or both of you. But the real thing is the choice is you and your wifes. All marriages go through this and its how you two handle it that makes the difference. So both of you look into your hearts for the answer. I am here for you.

 

[Erogenouszone]

some really good insight

thank you ArthurW, that is truly a very insightful passage you shared and it has allowed me to look at things in a completely different light. Thank you so much!

 

[ArthurW]

Your welcome. We all go through what you have gone through. I wish you the best but you need to talk let me know.