Looking for some help

[HoodsBreath]

Ok since my last post didn't work to well, thought i'd try a different approach.

I seek the people's collective help on this question

What is the best way to attract the attention of the opposite sex in a forum, like lets say this one

 

[Trailblzn]

I'm no expert but from what I can tell it is about 1,000 men here for every one female. We are all vying for the attention of the wonderfully sexy and amazing women on this site. It sounds like you are looking to put your line in the water and have the fish jump in the boat. The women are so sought after on this site that they don't have to respond to any post to meet someone. They can post something provocative or just say hello and their inbox is flooded. If you would like to meet someone here, you need to be charming, witty or "different" enough to catch someone's eye. You need to pursue and become someone that has something to offer because you may be the best looking guy in the room in real life but, here you are just 1 in 100,000 attempting to find what we all want. Not everyone one wants the same end result but what it boils down to is we all want attention and the wonderful ladies here get a lot of it, they don't need to seek you out to get it.

I wish you the best of luck. My advice, for what it is or isn't worth, become a regular, get to know people and just be a part of the community, if you are what someone is looking for you will make some connections, just don't expect to find a real life lover in a day or a week. I think that is very rare.

Good Luck

 

[Crawlingchaos]

I would have to say the same thing, try to stand out in a unique way that doesn’t scare or put people off, get involved and have fun, I’m starting to get back into this after a long absence so good luck to you

 

[Midwest50Guy]

the only thing i would add is dont make this place as the only place to make new friends.

when you are out in public, make new friends also.

dont hide behind your online person.

it is probably easier to make friends offline to be honest because of the odds mentioned.

 

[dkf7172]

Be unique. Be yourself. Be honest, no lies. If you are a guy, be a gentleman in your reply. Carefully read the post you are interested in. Hear and understand what the writer of the post is saying and allow that to dictate your reply. Be a little mysterious. Arouse the person's curiosity. Be patient. If it takes a while to receive a reply, so what.

 

[fun2kissamy]

the only thing i would add is dont make this place as the only place to make new friends.

when you are out in public, make new friends also.

dont hide behind your online person.

it is probably easier to make friends offline to be honest because of the odds mentioned.

I like this It is a simple reminder to keep ourselves real. Keep being real and you will find the one who cherishes that.

 

[HoodsBreath]

Thank you so much guys for the advice, i shall be doing all i can to achieve everything you have suggested, but first i need to set up my profile, which i am having a hard time doing

 

[MLT7]

Thank you so much guys for the advice, i shall be doing all i can to achieve everything you have suggested, but first i need to set up my profile, which i am having a hard time doing

I'm new at well but i think there is actually something wrong with that because i have the same issue. But i also thank those who have posted.

 

[sexlover66]

Prayer....lol