Looking for online Mistress, or hell, just someone to figure things out

altec

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I guess what I'm looking for most is someone to talk to. Someone who wouldn't mind helping out someone, who by all definitions of the word is a newbie, discover themselves and above all else, offer a guiding hand.

I don't know if that's too much to ask, and I'm not really sure if I'll find it here, but it never hurts to find out.

I'm 24, male, in the toronto or GTA area. Location really doesn't matter I suppose, but it never hurts to know either :).
 
A little more about myself.

I've had an online mistress before, but she soured me on the whole idea for a good year and a half, almost two years, since it wasn't a very good experience. I'm not looking for someone who only wants to humiliate and talk down to me, but someone who is willing to teach and learn, and help me not only grow into and become more comfortable with my submission, but someone who is great to talk with, period.

It might be hard to believe, but I'm not looking for someone to merely help me indulge in fantasy and to get my rocks off, so to speak. It's been something I've known about, in me for many years, and the one time I did decide to act upon them to help me see what I was comfortable with, it didn't work the way I thought it would. I figured it wasn't for me, but there's a lot to it that I wasn't aware of, and I'm still not aware of to be honest, but I'm looking to explore the mental aspects more than anything.

I don't really have much experience, and like I said in the topic, someone to talk to who is willing to help me learn would be a blessing.
 
Bump?

I guess this probably wasn't the best of introductions, or even a moderately good way to go about things. Ah well, live and learn.
 
altec said:
Bump?

I guess this probably wasn't the best of introductions, or even a moderately good way to go about things. Ah well, live and learn.


Well you seem like a sweetie - just try talking to women on the boards and getting to know people a bit. You will be have more of a chance to meet someone. Good luck :)
 
Oh I just wanted to add - I am not in the slightest bit dominant so this was just friendly advice, rather than following my own - if that makes sense.
 
sweetandkinky said:
Oh I just wanted to add - I am not in the slightest bit dominant so this was just friendly advice, rather than following my own - if that makes sense.

It makes perfect sense, and thank you for your advice :). I've been busy like hell the past week, so I haven't been able to be on for more than a few minutes at a time. But I'm going to try to make some time this weekend to make more of a formal introduction or whatnot. Whatever you want to call it :).

You know, be active on the boards :).
 
domme here

altec said:
I guess what I'm looking for most is someone to talk to. Someone who wouldn't mind helping out someone, who by all definitions of the word is a newbie, discover themselves and above all else, offer a guiding hand.

I am dominant and wouldn't mind talking with you about the emotions involved at all. Though I'm personally more interested in female subs, I have enjoyed helping a couple male subs learn about themselves. It takes honest, open communication... and intelligence... and willingness to look inside at what you may fear the most--yourself and your needs.

PM me if you are still interested. I see you haven't been on this thread for a little while, so I'm not sure if you still are. But I'm here if you wish to talk.

~Ani
 
Hi domme. I'm sort of looking for the same thing really. I'm more into humiliation and orgasm control. I'm still coming to terms with my fetishes, and how they relate to me actual sex life offline. If you'd be willing to talk to me too, that would be great.

Thanks.
 
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