Looking for New Things | Kentucky

[dozens]

So, I'm a late-20's white male that is totally new to this whole online kink thang. Never posted on a message board about sex, only met one person online that I then met in real life. I don't really know where to begin, but I know what I want - and that's a new and much, much more interesting sex life. I got out of a relationship about a year ago and have since been meeting girls here and there, but I'm ready to find a partner or partners that can make some of my more fun fantasies and interests become reality, all the while doing the same for them.

I'm sick of vanilla sex! I want the good sex !!! I'm wanting to try new things, lots and lots of new things... I'm interested in dominating and being dominated, licking a lot, and I mean a lot and everywhere, which brings me to ass-play, toys, restraints, on and on, and for about 6 months or so I've been thinking about how I'd kinda like to have a comfortable 3-way with a guy and a girl so i can dabble in some bi thoughts. Watching another couple together and so forth... Maybe more - probably more, no definately more. Who knows... I just know I want to try a ton of new things and I need help making that all happen!

I've always been in straight relationships with straight girls. I've dabbled in some sub/dom stuff, but never to the degree I wanted to take it. I take an interest in just about every single kink you can think of, short of really technical stuff, and I'm ready to get into it - but I just don't know how... How do you guys and gals meet the ones you play with? Where? How? I feel like I'm outside the club but I can't find the door....

 

[Missingmeds]

In the interest of helping a neighbor out, first of all, start by completely filling out your profile on Lit. Second, try the BDSM personals, read the entire BDSM library on the BDSM board.

Ask questions. Talk to people. Post so people get to know you and they will talk to you and they will answer your questions.

I hope this helped and welcome to Lit.

 

[dozens]

I didn't put my personal in the BDSM area becuase I'm not looking strictly for BDSM at all - that's just some of what I'm into... But thanks, and I'll fill out my profile and all that now

So, how many of you all actually meet people in real life thru here? If not here, where? Please everyone, I'm very interested in getting into a more alternative sex lifestyle, or at least a wilder one, but I just don't know where to begin being in such a small town.