Looking for new experiences

[Qyron]

I have a distinct feeling I'm throwing myself to the wolves, but I've always had a litle dumb bone in me, so the hell with it.

I'm a 25 year old, Portuguese, male. There; that's done.

I've been curious for BDSM fun & games for a long time but was never able to get to have an experience. To be honest, taking in question some storys I've read, it scares me off my boots. But cowards tend to throw themselves into the danger more quickly just to end the fear, ence...

One thing I can state: I am not 100% sub. Complete submission is not for me, as I tend to rebellion. Switch, perhaps. But who knows best?

I'm looking to meet a Mistress (sorry people, but in this type of scene I'm totally heterossexual). More specifically a caring Domme - the idea of getting spanked might turn me on, but getting a power trip on the other side, no.

I'm losing all chances I could get but...

Final stretch: not interest in anything real-time. E-mail; chat or pm possibly. I would like things to grow slowly, by getting to know who I'm talking to first.
One final thing: I find elegance and politeness to be more exciting than slang. I admit my English is poor, but I do want to make an effort in improving it.

Did I get your interest? PM me.

Regards

Q

 

[Qyron]

I'm getting sad.

 

[Qyron]

*bump*

No feedback, no nothing....

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Sorry Qyron, but you won't get much, if any interest. Dominant women, for the most part, don't bother to look for submissives, the submissives come to them.

Dominant women are the smallest group in the BDSM lifestyle, submissive men are the largest. Depending which survey you want to believe, the overall number of submissives to Dominants in the lifestyle is anywhere from 5 to 1 to as much as 20 to 1. The msub to FDom ratio is even worse.

If you want to find a Dominant woman, YOU will have to get out there and read profiles, read their posts, find out if they interest you... Then you had better study them, get to know their likes and dislikes, prepare yourself to talk about the things they enjoy, to serve them in a manner that pleases them. You need to be able to present yourself as someone worthwhile, with skills that will make their lives easier or better in some way.

You will need to stand out from the herd.

Because there will be 20 - 30 other horney net geeks wanting her attention. What makes you worth her time and effort?

Please understand that I am not trying to discourage you, I am trying to help you get a realistic expectation about what you can expect from a personal ad here, and some ways to go about meeting someone who might be a good match for you.

Good luck!

 

[Qyron]

Well, Geoff, all I can is that reply of yours as put me thinking.

And on this moment all I can say is that I must re-evaluate myself.

But nevertheless, thank you for you post. It is always nice to have feedback on our thoughts.