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[ChrisC0lumbus]

Good morning to all you lovely UK ladies. I know you're out there. Somewhere.

I'm a very well humoured 46mwm, fit, 5' 10", shade under 80kg, still most of my own, dark hair (was always mine but it is wearing a bit thin in places), sexless marriage but not wanting to leave (how common is that? And, yeh, I do know it sounds a bit desperate! Not after sympathy; just telling it how it is), happy to supply more details as you like. Looking to find a lovely lady with whom I can spend fun times on pm, YIM and, ideally, occasionaly in the flesh (though not necessarily sexually, just so I have a better picture when we're in cyber world. On the other hand, if its right, why not?). I can't believe that there isn't someone out there to answer this call.

 

[lonely_married]

I feel your pain. I love my wife and would never leave her, but have not had sec in over a year... I gotta get some too!

 

[DiablosWhore]

I keep hearing it, reading it, so much that I can't help but wonder if the "sexless marriage" is a far more normal thing than any other kind.

I'm not married, but in every live-in relationship I've had, the usual, frequent sex dwindled quite rapidly. Hmm? Makes me wonder.

Hey, maybe the world should invent a job for young women ...women who could come to your home and have sex with you and you pay her for her efforts. Oh, wait, is that a.....?

 

[vibes]

... and why not young men, too?

 

[DiablosWhore]

... and why not young men, too?

Ah, and what would those young men do? I'm sort of new to all of this ...ah, dare I say it, ...sex stuff.

 

[vibes]

Ah, and what would those young men do? I'm sort of new to all of this ...ah, dare I say it, ...sex stuff.

"men who could come to your home and have sex with you and you pay them for their efforts"

 

[DiablosWhore]

"men who could come to your home and have sex with you and you pay them for their efforts"

Ah, wait! You mean men would come to the home and have sex with the married ....ah, man? Or a man come to the house to have sex with the married woman?

Hmm, damn, I'm getting confused. Just who is the one who's complaining about a "sexless" marriage? The husband? The wife? Or ...ahh, the "other"?

 

[vibes]

A Lit survey would probably tell you that the husbands are complaining as much as the wives ... in the matter of who comes to fuck whom I am not able to help you

 

[ChrisC0lumbus]

I keep hearing it, reading it, so much that I can't help but wonder if the "sexless marriage" is a far more normal thing than any other kind.

I'm not married, but in every live-in relationship I've had, the usual, frequent sex dwindled quite rapidly. Hmm? Makes me wonder.

Hey, maybe the world should invent a job for young women ...women who could come to your home and have sex with you and you pay her for her efforts. Oh, wait, is that a.....?

I have a theory on the subject that suggests that monogamous marriage is an artificial "man"made state that goes against the human nature... but I won't bore you with that here. Lets just have fun, some saucy banter and write out (if not live out) a fantasy or two.

 

[DiablosWhore]

What would happen to a man (or woman, for that matter) if they never, ever had sex in their entire lives. No sex, no masturbation, no fucking knot holes in old, dead trees, no rubbing oneself, no... Well, no anything sexual. Would his balls shrivel up and fall off? Would his brains turn to mush? And a woman....?

 

[ChrisC0lumbus]

What would happen to a man (or woman, for that matter) if they never, ever had sex in their entire lives. No sex, no masturbation, no fucking knot holes in old, dead trees, no rubbing oneself, no... Well, no anything sexual. Would his balls shrivel up and fall off? Would his brains turn to mush? And a woman....?

what happened to the monks in days of (maybe not even so) old? Maybe it is a case of use it or loose it. Actually I think its more a case of what you don't have you don't miss. I'd be surprised if a mans balls would shrivel up and fall off though. As far as I know there's nothing to fall off a woman.

 

[southern_gal]

It isn't just men that do without. My husband works away from home for extended periods and I have gotten used to no sex for weeks at a time. I empathize with all the guys on here that have to deal with the frustration but his job is what he has wanted to do since I met him so that is the price we pay I suppose. Maybe if he was home all the time and we still did nothing in bed things might be different. I might start feeling rejected or less attractive or worry about a lot of things that at least now I am not dealing with. Still, there are so many times that a vibrating piece of latex covered plastic just isn't enough anymore.