looking for lovely and clever female correspondent

vaalbara

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Like so many others, I'm looking for a connection.

I'm a 30yo married Canadian writer; someone who's relaxed, thoughtful and compassionate externally, intensely sexual on a personal level. Both sides are a true part of who I am. I'm looking for an email-based correspondence, an erotic friendship. I'm open the relationship including text chat and evolving to phone/voice chat, cam, and even possibly meeting, but I don't feel that any of those elements are essential to the sort of connection I'm looking for. I'm married and in love with my wife, but obviously I have reasons for needing something else, and once you PM me I'm comfortable talking about those reasons. My own perversions and fetishes? Most anything that you find on literotica, some more than others; stuff we can talk about in PMs. I want a level of familiarity where we can be open and conversational about our own lives as friends, as opposed to a relationship that is strictly about the sexual connection.

Things that don't really matter to me: your age, body type, location. I'm probably going to be more comfortable with someone who's also married, but that's not necessarily a sticking point for me. So what is important to me? I'm looking for someone who can be thoughtful and a little perverse. A brilliant mind that can't stay out of the gutter. I don't necessarily need someone who shares all my perversions, but someone who's comfortable talking about almost anything. I want to understand your sexuality and find the words that spark it, learn how to master it.

I realize that's a lot to ask for, and I'm reluctant to be too detailed because it's entirely possible that I could find that connection with someone who isn't anything like what I've specified above. So if you're looking for something like what I'm looking for, send me a PM.
 
Hi there..... I'm not really in the market to be what anyone is looking for but if I were, I would definitely send you a message. As it is, I wish you good luck in findind that lady you are searching for. :)
 
I just want to say thanks to those who responded to my ad and those who wished me well. It was really gratifying to get the response that I did. While I'm always interested in meeting interesting people, I'm going to take some time to explore some existing possibilities. Best of luck to everyone else out there who's looking for something.
 
This is an ancient bump (6 years!). But this ad worked well for me once and gave me a fantastic friendship. It once again holds true in terms of what I'm looking for (although no longer looking for something that eventually leads to meeting up... online/voice/phone only). A clever, thoughtful, perverse mind is still the perfect description of who I'm looking for.
 
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