Looking for fun in Sacramento

[gurlyboy13]

My wife and i are looking to get into the bdsm arena. we are new to this but we are willing to learn. She is 5'7" 150 lbs 38D i am 6'4" 200 lbs and 7-8 inches depending upon level of arousal. we are both in our mid 40's and want to start slow we come to sac about once a month. please pm me if any one has info
Thanks