I'm a first timer looking for another female to fulfil husbands dream of a 3some. I have never done anything like this, but look foward to it. Any advice?
Unless you want to go the swingers route, be ready for a loooooooooong wait! Seriously, it might be easier to find another couple who wants the same (men watch/play with their own partners) because single bi/bi curious women who want to join a couple are few and far between.
Also, be very careful to lay out the groundrules and go through all of the scenarios (including if one of you is bothered by it during or after) before you do this. I've known more than one couple who has gone into a threesome enthusiastically and come out of it in some turmoil.