MissShelly
Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 17, 2014
- Posts
- 93
My husband and I are new to BDSM. I've thought about it for months and finally got up the nerve to tell him that I wanted to try this. He is very open to it.
But while I've had months to think about and fantasize about exactly what I want, he has not had much time to think about it (he works a lot and we are currently in different states and he's an "out of sight out of mind," kind of guy with many things).
We are looking for an experienced male Dom to be friends with, who can help guide/mentor him.
We are NOT interested in "playing" with anyone else. Simply looking for friendship, guidance and mentoring.
As it stands right now, I kind of have to top from the bottom, and it's not what I want/need and hope that we grow out of that paricular arrangement.
To be clear, my husband has said he'd be willing to talk to an experienced Dom for some help.
Thanks.
If it matters, I'm 35 and he's 34.
But while I've had months to think about and fantasize about exactly what I want, he has not had much time to think about it (he works a lot and we are currently in different states and he's an "out of sight out of mind," kind of guy with many things).
We are looking for an experienced male Dom to be friends with, who can help guide/mentor him.
We are NOT interested in "playing" with anyone else. Simply looking for friendship, guidance and mentoring.
As it stands right now, I kind of have to top from the bottom, and it's not what I want/need and hope that we grow out of that paricular arrangement.
To be clear, my husband has said he'd be willing to talk to an experienced Dom for some help.
Thanks.
If it matters, I'm 35 and he's 34.
