Looking for Dominant chat partner/friend

[MelancholyBaby]

I am not sure if this is the right place to be posting this as I am truly not looking for a Dominant for myself, I only wish to befriend one/some. Anyway, here goes and thanks for reading.

Throughout much of my adult life I've been familiar with BDSM and have always considered myself to be submissive, although I have wavered on this issue somewhat. I've decided rather than try to label myself I am interested in finding some Dominants to chat with to explore the lifestyle more. I am absolutely NOT looking to be someone's online or r/t sub; I want to make that very clear so there are no misunderstandings. While I am not in a relationship at present I am doing some serious work on myself and going through a transitional period in my life where I don't need that kind of distraction. What I would like is someone who is somewhat of a kindred spirit who will help me to understand and learn more about the lifestyle so I can learn and understand more of myself...a mentor or guide.

I am more interested in the psychological aspects of power exchange than anything sexual or physical. In the past I have gravitated toward men who are more like Daddy Doms and also individuals who are into 24/7 TPE. I hope I have provided you with a good description of what I am looking to find, to me it is hard to describe. I've had it before so I know what it is, I was just too young to take advantage of it, so I'm looking for it again.

Thank You,
-mb

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

I am not sure if this is the right place to be posting this as I am truly not looking for a Dominant for myself, I only wish to befriend one/some. Anyway, here goes and thanks for reading.

Throughout much of my adult life I've been familiar with BDSM and have always considered myself to be submissive, although I have wavered on this issue somewhat. I've decided rather than try to label myself I am interested in finding some Dominants to chat with to explore the lifestyle more. I am absolutely NOT looking to be someone's online or r/t sub; I want to make that very clear so there are no misunderstandings. While I am not in a relationship at present I am doing some serious work on myself and going through a transitional period in my life where I don't need that kind of distraction. What I would like is someone who is somewhat of a kindred spirit who will help me to understand and learn more about the lifestyle so I can learn and understand more of myself...a mentor or guide.

I am more interested in the psychological aspects of power exchange than anything sexual or physical. In the past I have gravitated toward men who are more like Daddy Doms and also individuals who are into 24/7 TPE. I hope I have provided you with a good description of what I am looking to find, to me it is hard to describe. I've had it before so I know what it is, I was just too young to take advantage of it, so I'm looking for it again.

Thank You,
-mb

thats a great post, i really do hope that you find what you are looking for

 

[MelancholyBaby]

Thank you!!

Awww...thank you so much!!!

-mb

 

[MelancholyBaby]

Aren't I a Lucky Gal

I have found a mentor. Beginner's luck!!

 

[fallon2]

Yes

I do think you are lucky!

 

[HL55]

Good Luck lass....

Saw you found a mentor lass, hope it works out for you .... If interested I am a member in several online groups that are owned managed by r/l D/s BDSM peeps who have beein involved for many years in both r/l and o/l ... We do have a chat area for hosted topic discussions as well as great threads and articles within the sites Many have stumbled upon the group(s ) by sheer chance yet have stayed and learned as well as shared their own experiences with others too Please feel free to contact me thru here lass if interested PM or email works my info is on my profile here
pax HL

ps wasn't looking for an o/l g/f here just offering to help and be a friend too ....