Looking for Couples who practice Domestic Marital Discipline

[Farinholt777]

I have obviously a vested interest in the corporal arts as my Petworthy novel demonstrates. I am keenly interested in talking and learning about couples who practice positive, marital Domestic Discipline with regular corporal punishments as a part of daily life. We tried it here at home but my wife is made of a different timber than that. That being said, I have heard and read about numerous couples who have had successful marriages with this dynamic. I am particularly interested in talking with those who practice Christian Domestic Marital Discipline. I have discovered that this is something of an enclave inside the DD community.

Thanks for your input friends.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I haven't seen in discussed here in a Christian context. When I first started looking for BDSM forums I found a some on DD and Christian DD. It's been quite a while so I can't give you any links. You may have better luck on those sites.

I would say Sir and I practice DD, a little more so not that we are married and living together 24/7 , in addition to a more heavy BDSM thing.

If your wife is not interested in it, you have a tough row ahead of you. Tread lightly with her and good luck.

One theory I found interesting is the "Roberts Method", or something like that, where either partner of a married couple would discipline the other for an infraction of rules they had agreed apart. It seems that they were simply talking about OTK spankings for punishment. There are certainly times I feel like Sir could use a good spanking .

I have obviously a vested interest in the corporal arts as my Petworthy novel demonstrates. I am keenly interested in talking and learning about couples who practice positive, marital Domestic Discipline with regular corporal punishments as a part of daily life. We tried it here at home but my wife is made of a different timber than that. That being said, I have heard and read about numerous couples who have had successful marriages with this dynamic. I am particularly interested in talking with those who practice Christian Domestic Marital Discipline. I have discovered that this is something of an enclave inside the DD community.

Thanks for your input friends.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Man, I would NOT turn myself over someone's knee because they read it in the bible that the husband should discipline his wife. You need a hell of a lot more than some half-assed cherry-picked religious sanction to have authority over another person.

 

[KoPilot]

I've been making my way through a book called 'The Ordeal Path' which is about using BDSM and BDSM techniques to achieve trance states, induce pain to use as an offering, and so on. I would not into using religion to justify D/s, but I'd be perfectly happy bringing it into the dynamic if my partner were on the same page as me.

 

[box13]

There's a few CDD forums, and books. Why don't you join them, and ask your questions there? Or read the books?

But just trying to intuit where you might be coming from:

- You get turned on by spanking your wife.
- She doesn't enjoy it so much.
- You may be thinking that if you can say "Here, honey, it says in this Old Book that I should spank you" then you'll have it made.

Not sure if that plan will work. Kinda doubt it. I get the impression that the majority of "functioning" CDD marriages are those where the wife brought the subject up, and well, really enjoys the feeling of her husband exercising his "X-given" authority over her. And in her (or their) worldview / mindset, that dynamic works....whatever "works" means.

So...I'm going to come out and say it, if you're hoping to spank your wife because the Good Book says you can, please don't. It doesn't, and you shouldn't.

If however, your wife is inclined towards spanking, but unsure as to why or what that really means, then perhaps reading what other wives have posted about their experiences would probably be more helpful than what you can find here.

I've heard people talk about some website called "taken in hand" but I don't know anything about it.

Good luck. I guess.

 

[LucyH]

Yeah, I'll second the comment that if she doesn't buy the idea of CDD, it isn't gonna work. Back when I was religious, I had a boyfriend tried to tell me that he was supposed to be the boss because he was the guy. I can't remember for sure if I laughed in his face or not, but my respect for him definitely went down a couple notches.

Now I don't know if that's where you're coming from, but if it is, you might want to rethink.