Hey all,
I'll try not to make this too complicated, but also will try to make clear what I'm looking for. I am a young, bi-curious married man. I am very much attracted to women, and I do love and care for my wife. But... I have also come to terms with the fact that I am also interested in exploring with another guy.
Now here is the problem. As I've looked into different sites to find others like me, I've noticed that most of the men I seem to run into are pretty much into finding anonymous partners to hook up with and be on there way to another one. This is not what I'm looking for. Since I do actually love and care about my wife, I don't want to start putting my dick into things that I'm not sure where its all been. I've found that if I really want a blowjob, or to suck someone off, then craigslist or men4sexnow are good sites, but everytime I've talked to someone on there, I've always gotten the vibe that they've been there, done that.
What I am looking for is another guy, preferrably married, or in a serious relationship, who is interested in experimenting with one other guy where we can trust that we are not picking up a bunch of std's that we will pass onto our innocent partners. I would like to find someone to chat with first, so we can start building some trust with each other, and once we both know we are not just out looking for any action we can get, then we can experiment together. No need for an emotional relationship, but if I'm going to satisfy these urges without endangering someone I love, I need to be certain the person I do it with is in my same boat.
Thanks for taking the time to read this, hopefully someone out there recognizes themselves and will respond. If your looking for some quick sex, don't bother.
TTYL, Mike
I'll try not to make this too complicated, but also will try to make clear what I'm looking for. I am a young, bi-curious married man. I am very much attracted to women, and I do love and care for my wife. But... I have also come to terms with the fact that I am also interested in exploring with another guy.
Now here is the problem. As I've looked into different sites to find others like me, I've noticed that most of the men I seem to run into are pretty much into finding anonymous partners to hook up with and be on there way to another one. This is not what I'm looking for. Since I do actually love and care about my wife, I don't want to start putting my dick into things that I'm not sure where its all been. I've found that if I really want a blowjob, or to suck someone off, then craigslist or men4sexnow are good sites, but everytime I've talked to someone on there, I've always gotten the vibe that they've been there, done that.
What I am looking for is another guy, preferrably married, or in a serious relationship, who is interested in experimenting with one other guy where we can trust that we are not picking up a bunch of std's that we will pass onto our innocent partners. I would like to find someone to chat with first, so we can start building some trust with each other, and once we both know we are not just out looking for any action we can get, then we can experiment together. No need for an emotional relationship, but if I'm going to satisfy these urges without endangering someone I love, I need to be certain the person I do it with is in my same boat.
Thanks for taking the time to read this, hopefully someone out there recognizes themselves and will respond. If your looking for some quick sex, don't bother.
TTYL, Mike
