Looking for an unusual person...

[Intrigued_Girl]

I'm looking for a man who is friendly, respectful (and respectful of boundaries), intelligent, and sexually dominant. I want a friendship with this kind of man, and I want it to start with some conversation that isn't strictly sexual. I want to get to know you a bit as a person.

I'm a very sexual person, but I'm also pretty shy about it, and I need a rapport with someone I like and respect before I can really open up. This would be a friendship, not a cyberfuck relationship. I don't think I want to be anyone's online sub, and any messages that declare yourself my master or whatever will be deleted immediately. I just want to have some conversation with someone with complementary interests to help me explore a little.

I'm a little nerdy, a little bookish, and very politically progressive. I'm not always great at opening up, but I'm working on it. I like to be silly and I can also be snarky; if you like to banter we might be a good fit.

I'm not sure what else to put here except send me a message to start a conversation if you're interested. Please include something interesting you've been thinking about lately to help get the conversation rolling.

 

[rkpt]

Hi

You posted a very interesting and evocative message. I'd enjoy chatting with you about your thoughts. I'm a mature (40s) professional guy, fit, and educated. Please let me know if you'd like to take the conversation further.

 

[EctoJohn]

I can be friendly and respectful, not so sure about intelligent or sexually dominant.

 

[frankie49]

I can do friendly, respectful and intelligentish.

Not so much sexually dominant. I prefer an equal sharing.

I have been thinking about the limits of freedom of speech. Plus when we say 'society norms' who or what is society?

 

[SSG2point0]

I'd be curious how you would compare and contrast liberal vs progressive. (Might want to message me to avoid flamefest 2015)

 

[YoungToy]

Depending on how you define "Politcally Progressive", I may be interested in sending you a PM.

 

[Prince Albert]

What do you want to talk about?? Weather here is bittery cold, nasty.

 

[Intrigued_Girl]

Some clarification.

I didn't know it when I made the previous post, but perhaps the most unusual quality I'm looking for is someone who understands my communication style. Many, perhaps most, of the messages I'm receiving are from people who do not seem to have understood my original post.

If my post doesn't describe you or what you're looking for, please do not send messages. I'm sure you're lovely but I am looking for something specific.

I'll try writing this in another format to be clearer about what I'm looking for.

If you are...
-a man
-friendly
-respectful
-respectful of boundaries
-intelligent
-sexually dominant
-willing to develop a friendship (NOT a cybersex relationship)
-willing to take some time to get to know each other instead of talking immediately about sex

... please send me a message, preferably not listing your cock size, and tell me about something you've been thinking about lately, to start a conversation.

If any of those things do not apply to you, I'm afraid I'm not interested.

 

[Intrigued_Girl]

Oh, and as far as my politics go: I'm feminist, antiracist, pro-LGBT rights, and a lot of things along that vein. If you are too, please move to the front of the queue.

I find I have a lot more in common with people whose viewpoints on these matters resemble my own.

 

[Paradox]

I didn't know it when I made the previous post, but perhaps the most unusual quality I'm looking for is someone who understands my communication style. Many, perhaps most, of the messages I'm receiving are from people who do not seem to have understood my original post.

If my post doesn't describe you or what you're looking for, please do not send messages. I'm sure you're lovely but I am looking for something specific.

I'll try writing this in another format to be clearer about what I'm looking for.

If you are...
-a man
-friendly
-respectful
-respectful of boundaries
-intelligent
-sexually dominant
-willing to develop a friendship (NOT a cybersex relationship)
-willing to take some time to get to know each other instead of talking immediately about sex

... please send me a message, preferably not listing your cock size, and tell me about something you've been thinking about lately, to start a conversation.

If any of those things do not apply to you, I'm afraid I'm not interested.

Welcome to Lit

And check your PMs.

 

[jazm49]

Wasn't sure

I wasn't sure exactly where you were politically when I sent my PM. Now I am.

I'd say we're dead on.

But you didn't mention economics. That's a big one in my book. Ross Perot spoke of the "giant sucking sound" of NAFTA sucking jobs. And he was right. Now we're hearing the giant sucking sound of the 1% sucking money out of our economy as if the rest of us were just their milk cows.

So, where am I in the queue? How long is this queue anyway? And are you a Brit (that perfectly okay)?