TheDDLover
Virgin
- Joined
- Jun 29, 2014
- Posts
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I have been a Dom within the lifestyle for over 15 years and have had wide range of experiences. During that time, I have come to believe that for somebody to be a submissive/slave they need the right type of mind-set for this relationship. Therefore, I am looking for a female submissive or slave to enter into an online Power Exchange relationship. Depending on our situations it could extend to real life too.
This type of relationship is partly about your current mind-set, and also about your behaviours. Over time I would hope to change both of theses for the better. This is usually done through rules, punishments, positive re-enforcement and open communication to name some things.
With this type of relationship, it is about giving up control over areas of your life. This can be aspects of your sexual life, like how you masturbate/if or when you can have an orgasm etc. It could include aspects of your vanilla life, like how you will dress day in and out, how to complete chores around your place, restrictions and rights within your day to day life etc. Most of the areas within a person’s life could be given control over to another person.
Power Exchange is not just limited to the above; it can also be used to improve your overall life too. Like losing weight, procrastination and putting off chores, homework, getting and sticking to a job etc. It could include correcting negative behaviours like swearing, smoking etc. With this type of relationship, I am more of a guide in your life. You will be the one who is doing the hard work of achieving your goal/s.
One important thing you need to remember is that it does take time to get into place the mechanisms to take control away from or to start to help you. Over time you will need to learn to accept orders or decisions that I have made. Depending on the orders or decisions that I make, I would seek your advice before making it final.
I do not discriminate against your age, experience, relationship status etc as long as you are female (You will not believe how many males pretend to be females). If you are interested in learning more, please contact me privately. Please tell me what you are looking for from this type of relationship.
This type of relationship is partly about your current mind-set, and also about your behaviours. Over time I would hope to change both of theses for the better. This is usually done through rules, punishments, positive re-enforcement and open communication to name some things.
With this type of relationship, it is about giving up control over areas of your life. This can be aspects of your sexual life, like how you masturbate/if or when you can have an orgasm etc. It could include aspects of your vanilla life, like how you will dress day in and out, how to complete chores around your place, restrictions and rights within your day to day life etc. Most of the areas within a person’s life could be given control over to another person.
Power Exchange is not just limited to the above; it can also be used to improve your overall life too. Like losing weight, procrastination and putting off chores, homework, getting and sticking to a job etc. It could include correcting negative behaviours like swearing, smoking etc. With this type of relationship, I am more of a guide in your life. You will be the one who is doing the hard work of achieving your goal/s.
One important thing you need to remember is that it does take time to get into place the mechanisms to take control away from or to start to help you. Over time you will need to learn to accept orders or decisions that I have made. Depending on the orders or decisions that I make, I would seek your advice before making it final.
I do not discriminate against your age, experience, relationship status etc as long as you are female (You will not believe how many males pretend to be females). If you are interested in learning more, please contact me privately. Please tell me what you are looking for from this type of relationship.
