Hi,
I'm in the U.S., forty years old, tall (well, average height for a guy, actually, but probably taller than you!), light and handsome.
I found this site years ago while following through on an impulse to browse through some stories. I seldom read stuff here anymore, but I do enjoy writing things sometimes -- it can be a good outlet for a febrile mind.
I think it can be difficult to meet people in "real life" who are like-minded when it comes to sex, or at least who are willing to engage honestly with hidden corners of their desires and to talk about it (not to mention the subsequently acting upon it part). Soooo, I thought it might not be such a bad idea to see if I could connect with a person or people who happen to frequent this place.
I'm really into women who enjoy being submissive in the bedroom. I love everything about that. I think that most of us in contemporary society have sort of a skewed or messed-up relationship in regards to issues of power and control, at least when it comes to our fellow adults, and so I think it can be interesting (and potentially very hot, obviously) to play around with those dynamics in the realm of sexuality.
I'm not much into doling out physical pain, beyond spanking or slapping, that sort of thing... So if you're looking for someone to leave all sorts of dramatic marks on your body, then I'm probably not your guy. Nor am I interested in working with all sorts of props, costumes, elaborate nomenclature and protocols, etc. Rather, I like to keep things relatively light and spontaneous. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy being very demanding when the situation calls for it, but, I just mean that I wouldn't want the aims of pleasure and play to be overshadowed by all manner of rules and paraphernalia.
I enjoy the way that D/s interactions tend to flip people's everyday tendencies somewhat -- in other words, someone who is normally rather dominant in their day-to-day approach to life might crave taking a more submissive role when it comes to sexual activity... And personally speaking, I have very little interest in controlling the lives of people around me or bossing them around in everyday contexts, BUT, I do love indulging whatever whims I have in that regard when it comes to the bedroom. And I think that the fact that it is a sort of latent or buried force inside of me, makes it that much more powerful and intense when it actually does come out. Similarly, I think that oftentimes the most amazing manifestations of submission come from people who might tend towards being overcontrolling or even overbearing in everyday life. I'm not saying that this is true in all cases; I'm sure that there are many proverbial "alpha males" who make for great doms, and that there are probably many people with a tendency towards meekness who make for great subs, but, nonetheless I think there is no small amount of truth in whatever it is that I am trying to say here in way too longwinded a fashion!
Anyway, I tend to be very verbal, very affectionate, and I sometimes enjoy pushing a person past where they think they have established their limits. I love women and I love people in general, but I do enjoy playing with all manner of the politically incorrect and taboo. Don't be shy about messaging me, as I would enjoy chatting at least a little with just about anyone. If we both feel a connection of some sort, then obviously we can proceed from there.
I'm in the U.S., forty years old, tall (well, average height for a guy, actually, but probably taller than you!), light and handsome.
I found this site years ago while following through on an impulse to browse through some stories. I seldom read stuff here anymore, but I do enjoy writing things sometimes -- it can be a good outlet for a febrile mind.
I think it can be difficult to meet people in "real life" who are like-minded when it comes to sex, or at least who are willing to engage honestly with hidden corners of their desires and to talk about it (not to mention the subsequently acting upon it part). Soooo, I thought it might not be such a bad idea to see if I could connect with a person or people who happen to frequent this place.
I'm really into women who enjoy being submissive in the bedroom. I love everything about that. I think that most of us in contemporary society have sort of a skewed or messed-up relationship in regards to issues of power and control, at least when it comes to our fellow adults, and so I think it can be interesting (and potentially very hot, obviously) to play around with those dynamics in the realm of sexuality.
I'm not much into doling out physical pain, beyond spanking or slapping, that sort of thing... So if you're looking for someone to leave all sorts of dramatic marks on your body, then I'm probably not your guy. Nor am I interested in working with all sorts of props, costumes, elaborate nomenclature and protocols, etc. Rather, I like to keep things relatively light and spontaneous. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy being very demanding when the situation calls for it, but, I just mean that I wouldn't want the aims of pleasure and play to be overshadowed by all manner of rules and paraphernalia.
I enjoy the way that D/s interactions tend to flip people's everyday tendencies somewhat -- in other words, someone who is normally rather dominant in their day-to-day approach to life might crave taking a more submissive role when it comes to sexual activity... And personally speaking, I have very little interest in controlling the lives of people around me or bossing them around in everyday contexts, BUT, I do love indulging whatever whims I have in that regard when it comes to the bedroom. And I think that the fact that it is a sort of latent or buried force inside of me, makes it that much more powerful and intense when it actually does come out. Similarly, I think that oftentimes the most amazing manifestations of submission come from people who might tend towards being overcontrolling or even overbearing in everyday life. I'm not saying that this is true in all cases; I'm sure that there are many proverbial "alpha males" who make for great doms, and that there are probably many people with a tendency towards meekness who make for great subs, but, nonetheless I think there is no small amount of truth in whatever it is that I am trying to say here in way too longwinded a fashion!
Anyway, I tend to be very verbal, very affectionate, and I sometimes enjoy pushing a person past where they think they have established their limits. I love women and I love people in general, but I do enjoy playing with all manner of the politically incorrect and taboo. Don't be shy about messaging me, as I would enjoy chatting at least a little with just about anyone. If we both feel a connection of some sort, then obviously we can proceed from there.