Looking for advice...

[sunflower6789]

Hi there
I'm a 36 year old white male, 145 lbs and 5ft9. I have quite the dillema when it comes to my sexual life...

I have never been with another man, but I think about it all the time. While I haven't done it before, and with thanks to some of the amazing content on this site, I know that I would be a complete submissive slut if given the chance. I know that a dominate male, or even female, would love using me and I would do anything to please them. The thought of it turns me on incredibly... even just writing this simple thing has me rock hard and dripping precum.

The problem, I love my family, but know it would be the absolute ruin of everything if this side of me was exposed. I am still very attracted to my wife, but we haven't had sex in over a year. It just seems she has lost all interest. I find myself at least daily sneaking to the bathroom to watch gay/bi/femdom porn and relieve myself. Nothing makes me cum harder than reading some of the stories on this site though. I have no doubt if the opportunity presented itself to be a submissive slut, I would be compelled to take it... I don't think I could stop myself.

Has anyone out there experienced something like this? Any advice? Thank you for your time and consideration

 

[sunflower6789]

Also, I am in the Norfolk / Hampton Roads area in Virginia

 

[Greyhawk62]

Well, I am a bit older, 62, in great shape with a high sex drive and in a similar situation. I find myself attracted to very fem men, twinks, CDs. Although I haven’t acted on it I fantasize about hot sex with a fem type man, and I too watch a lot of bi, gay porn to relieve the stress. The thought of kissing a fem man gets me hard and us pleasuring each other and him being sub to me gets me off.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Hi there
I'm a 36 year old white male, 145 lbs and 5ft9. I have quite the dillema when it comes to my sexual life...

I have never been with another man, but I think about it all the time. While I haven't done it before, and with thanks to some of the amazing content on this site, I know that I would be a complete submissive slut if given the chance. I know that a dominate male, or even female, would love using me and I would do anything to please them. The thought of it turns me on incredibly... even just writing this simple thing has me rock hard and dripping precum.

The problem, I love my family, but know it would be the absolute ruin of everything if this side of me was exposed. I am still very attracted to my wife, but we haven't had sex in over a year. It just seems she has lost all interest. I find myself at least daily sneaking to the bathroom to watch gay/bi/femdom porn and relieve myself. Nothing makes me cum harder than reading some of the stories on this site though. I have no doubt if the opportunity presented itself to be a submissive slut, I would be compelled to take it... I don't think I could stop myself.

Has anyone out there experienced something like this? Any advice? Thank you for your time and consideration

Near as I can tell you are pretty much in the same boat alot of men are.
Uninterested spouse and on a cock hunt.
Personally I think more men are in the closet because they don't want to destroy their families lives.
Which in our world definitely the broken home is a huge problem for children.
Not sure how old you are but it seems people in their 40's and down are more likely to be able to discuss this type of thing with their spouse.
You never know your spouse might be thinking the same thing as you and can't figure out what to do about it

 

[Dreamer110]

Hi there
I'm a 36 year old white male, 145 lbs and 5ft9. I have quite the dillema when it comes to my sexual life...

I have never been with another man, but I think about it all the time. While I haven't done it before, and with thanks to some of the amazing content on this site, I know that I would be a complete submissive slut if given the chance. I know that a dominate male, or even female, would love using me and I would do anything to please them. The thought of it turns me on incredibly... even just writing this simple thing has me rock hard and dripping precum.

The problem, I love my family, but know it would be the absolute ruin of everything if this side of me was exposed. I am still very attracted to my wife, but we haven't had sex in over a year. It just seems she has lost all interest. I find myself at least daily sneaking to the bathroom to watch gay/bi/femdom porn and relieve myself. Nothing makes me cum harder than reading some of the stories on this site though. I have no doubt if the opportunity presented itself to be a submissive slut, I would be compelled to take it... I don't think I could stop myself.

Has anyone out there experienced something like this? Any advice? Thank you for your time and consideration

Shame you don't live next door. We'd have a good conversation.

 

[JohnS3]

I find myself in a similar situation. Wife really isn't interested anymore. She went to visit our son overseas and while she was away......

Through Doublelist I found a local submissive guy and we met once last year. I dressed him in some lingerie, ran a butt plug up his ass and jerked him off.

Then he put on the trench coat I provided and he sucked me dry.

 

[NewbieHere]

Hi there
I'm a 36 year old white male, 145 lbs and 5ft9. I have quite the dillema when it comes to my sexual life...

I have never been with another man, but I think about it all the time. While I haven't done it before, and with thanks to some of the amazing content on this site, I know that I would be a complete submissive slut if given the chance. I know that a dominate male, or even female, would love using me and I would do anything to please them. The thought of it turns me on incredibly... even just writing this simple thing has me rock hard and dripping precum.

The problem, I love my family, but know it would be the absolute ruin of everything if this side of me was exposed. I am still very attracted to my wife, but we haven't had sex in over a year. It just seems she has lost all interest. I find myself at least daily sneaking to the bathroom to watch gay/bi/femdom porn and relieve myself. Nothing makes me cum harder than reading some of the stories on this site though. I have no doubt if the opportunity presented itself to be a submissive slut, I would be compelled to take it... I don't think I could stop myself.

Has anyone out there experienced something like this? Any advice? Thank you for your time and consideration

Nothing wrong with fantasies.