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SirSensual541

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I'm a respectful, creative, intelligent, mature, single man still looking for that unique and special person to explore our mutual erotic interests together. I'm seeking something beyond just text chat and email once we've gotten to know each other, ideally someone into a combination of voice interaction, pics, or video/cam, offline tasks, in addition to text chat that helps create an authentic and meaningful experience. I’m not pushy about any of that but find that text only is not satisfying for me and I lose interest quickly. That said, I’m very willing to make the effort and put the time in toward getting to know someone and taking things at a reasonable pace. I absolutely respect your privacy, boundaries, and personal preferences in that regard!

I have no judgement if you're married or otherwise involved with someone else - I just don't want that to be a hindrance or issue with our interactions. I totally understand and support the desire/need to explore some things with other people outside of a relationship. I hope the right type of person will see this, contact me, and enjoy an amazing and mutually fulfilling ongoing experience for both of us!

I’m completely open to online/long distance communication and play. I'm located in western Oregon and would also love to connect with someone within a reasonable drive for at least the possibility of in-person encounters, but I do know that online/long distance arrangements can also be a lot of fun if the connection and situation is right. I’ve experienced that many times over the years.

Please only send me a PM in reply to this if you're sincere; I'm weary of players, phonies, and people looking to make money.

I also have an ad in the BDSM Personals and thought I'd open it up more by posting here. Although I am indeed looking for a D/s connection, that is by no means a requirement or the only type of situation that I'm interested in as far as enjoying basic communication and erotic fulfillment with a like-minded woman or couple. I love all kinds of erotic interaction and am very open to many aspects, so don't let the BDSM theme steer you away! ;)

I'm playful but serious, with a life-long interest in Dominance and submission, along with other kinks and eroticism. I prefer sensual domination and erotic exploration, not so much the sado-masochistic or degrading side of BDSM. Some of the things I like include directed activities, erotic teasing and edging, orgasm control, positions, toys, spanking and impact play, bondage, nipple and anal play, lingerie and sexy clothing. I'm very much into the psychological and sapiosexual aspects.

I thrive on knowing what it is that appeals to you and want you to be able to share that with me. Then we will explore our mutual erotic interests through discussion and play. Elaborate fantasy roleplaying scenes do not appeal to me; I'm looking for something more reality based.

Also, please note that I'm a man in my mid50s and so if that age range does not work for you then it would be best not to bother inquiring.

Send a private message to find out more! Include a little about yourself, experience, interests, etc.

SirSensual
 
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Clarification

Editing for a clarification. And a Friday bump! Cuz you just never know who might see this... ;)
 
I'm a respectful, creative, intelligent, mature, single man still looking for that unique and special person to explore our mutual erotic interests together. I'm seeking something beyond just text chat and email once we've gotten to know each other, ideally someone into a combination of voice interaction, pics, or video/cam, offline tasks, in addition to text chat that helps create an authentic and meaningful experience. I’m not pushy about any of that but find that text only is not satisfying for me and I lose interest quickly. That said, I’m very willing to make the effort and put the time in toward getting to know someone and taking things at a reasonable pace. I absolutely respect your privacy, boundaries, and personal preferences in that regard!

I have no judgement if you're married or otherwise involved with someone else - I just don't want that to be a hindrance or issue with our interactions. I totally understand and support the desire/need to explore some things with other people outside of a relationship. I hope the right type of person will see this, contact me, and enjoy an amazing and mutually fulfilling ongoing experience for both of us!

I’m completely open to online/long distance communication and play. I'm located in western Oregon and would also love to connect with someone within a reasonable drive for at least the possibility of in-person encounters, but I do know that online/long distance arrangements can also be a lot of fun if the connection and situation is right. I’ve experienced that many times over the years.

Please only send me a PM in reply to this if you're sincere; I'm weary of players, phonies, and people looking to make money.

I also have an ad in the BDSM Personals and thought I'd open it up more by posting here. Although I am indeed looking for a D/s connection, that is by no means a requirement or the only type of situation that I'm interested in as far as enjoying basic communication and erotic fulfillment with a like-minded woman or couple. I love all kinds of erotic interaction and am very open to many aspects, so don't let the BDSM theme steer you away! ;)

I'm playful but serious, with a life-long interest in Dominance and submission, along with other kinks and eroticism. I prefer sensual domination and erotic exploration, not so much the sado-masochistic or degrading side of BDSM. Some of the things I like include directed activities, erotic teasing and edging, orgasm control, positions, toys, spanking and impact play, bondage, nipple and anal play, lingerie and sexy clothing. I'm very much into the psychological and sapiosexual aspects.

I thrive on knowing what it is that appeals to you and want you to be able to share that with me. Then we will explore our mutual erotic interests through discussion and play. Elaborate fantasy roleplaying scenes do not appeal to me; I'm looking for something more reality based.

Also, please note that I'm a man in my mid50s and so if that age range does not work for you then it would be best not to bother inquiring.

Send a private message to find out more! Include a little about yourself, experience, interests, etc.

SirSensual
I will also bump this for you.
 
In every imaginable way, this is an absolutely beautifully constructed and wonderfully sincere and descriptive post... the thoughtfulness, intentionality, and dedication that is represented here speaks loudly, and surely resonates deeply with anyone sinilarly wired. Kudos and gratitude @SirSensual541 for representing those that *live* in alignment and speak in Truth... as well as show genuine care and regard beyond the sputtering of their own next disposable and replaceable orgasmic delight. I hope that ALL that you seek and enriches your world in the most amazingly powerful and magnificent ways, finds you!
 
UPDATE: Everything previously written still applies, however I do now have a local GF and want to make that known. Online play, friendship, interaction is still within bounds and I’m still looking for a like-minded woman with mutual interests. Please PM to get acquainted.

I’m also looking for someone with a Lovense toy to play with. 😋
 
Just wondering who’s around these days and might be interested In exploring mutual satisfaction enjoying each other.
PM me to get acquainted and see if we click.
 
UPDATE April, 2024: Everything previously written still applies, however I do now have a local GF and want to make that known. Online play, friendship, interaction is still within bounds and I’m still looking for a like-minded woman with mutual interests. If that doesn’t work for you I completely understand! Please PM to get acquainted.

I’m also looking for someone with a Lovense toy to play with. 😋
 
Been away for a few months and checking back to see who’s around. Mostly looking for a play partner but open to more if there’s a good connection.
 
I’m back again after a “busy life hiatus” and looking to connect. Please check out my most recent posts for background and send a PM if you’d like to get acquainted.

I’m not into involved fantasy roleplay scenarios, although some of that can be fun. I prefer more direct and realistic interaction such as discussion about mutual kinks and experiences, erotic play, etc. Check out this thread and my profile for more info!
 
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Greetings to all who see this. I’m doing my occasional bumping of this thread to see if there’s anyone out there that’s interested. PM me and let’s get acquainted to find out if there’s chemistry and a compatible situation.
 
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