lonely_hubby60
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 21, 2017
- Posts
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For much too long, I had been kidding myself into believing that I wanted to fall in love with the lady mail partner I am looking for. In reality, I had been seeking a friends with benefits relationship all along. FWB is realism, "lovey-dove" is kidding one another, when one partner or both are married, and the married one(s) are not prepared to leave their spouses.
Two friends with benefits can feel just as happy with one another in a mail relationship as otherwise. Happier, I claim, because of more realism. Both know for sure that they may – at best – get together rarely IRL, because – let's face it – one or two spouses stand in the way.
But when the main motive for seeking an FWB affair "on the side" is the non-existence any longer of erotic intimacy with one's spouse, an FWB relationship can compensate for this quite well. By mail also, if both partners have a vivid imagination. After all, a horny man and a horny woman, who do not get from their spouses what they need in bed, know how to achieve orgasms on their own.
And instead of two FWBs pretending to love one another, they can simply care for one another, like each other, bring excitement into the relationship, empathize with one another, and have conversations with one another, which blow their minds.
Most likely this will then result in feelings of being in love, simply because mailing each other will feel so great, relative to their time without mails. Works great for void compensation. "Feeling alive again"; that is how a previous FWB I knew for a while described it once.
In case you are a woman and think along similar lines, what do you think of sending me a PM? Who knows, maybe you and I will connect with each other, and we will feel like becoming friends with benefits for one another?
Two friends with benefits can feel just as happy with one another in a mail relationship as otherwise. Happier, I claim, because of more realism. Both know for sure that they may – at best – get together rarely IRL, because – let's face it – one or two spouses stand in the way.
But when the main motive for seeking an FWB affair "on the side" is the non-existence any longer of erotic intimacy with one's spouse, an FWB relationship can compensate for this quite well. By mail also, if both partners have a vivid imagination. After all, a horny man and a horny woman, who do not get from their spouses what they need in bed, know how to achieve orgasms on their own.
And instead of two FWBs pretending to love one another, they can simply care for one another, like each other, bring excitement into the relationship, empathize with one another, and have conversations with one another, which blow their minds.
Most likely this will then result in feelings of being in love, simply because mailing each other will feel so great, relative to their time without mails. Works great for void compensation. "Feeling alive again"; that is how a previous FWB I knew for a while described it once.
In case you are a woman and think along similar lines, what do you think of sending me a PM? Who knows, maybe you and I will connect with each other, and we will feel like becoming friends with benefits for one another?
