Looking for a quiet spanking instrument

[Nola]

Hubby and I used to enjoy some spanking play before we had kids. Since the arrival of our munchkins, we haven't figured out the best way to get back into spanking. We've only ever used a hairbrush or his hands and those just seem too loud when there are sleeping children about.

Unfortunately, sending the kids out or hiring a baby sitter so we can be alone isn't really feasible at the moment.

Any suggestions? Thanks.


Nola

ps - if the BDSM board isn't the correct forum for this question, please let me know

 

[phace5]

Nola......

My ex-girlfriend used to dig her stiletto heels in me.

No sound at all.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Hubby and I used to enjoy some spanking play before we had kids. Since the arrival of our munchkins, we haven't figured out the best way to get back into spanking. We've only ever used a hairbrush or his hands and those just seem too loud when there are sleeping children about.

Unfortunately, sending the kids out or hiring a baby sitter so we can be alone isn't really feasible at the moment.

Any suggestions? Thanks.


Nola

ps - if the BDSM board isn't the correct forum for this question, please let me know

A large gel dildo would be silent..using one of those mitts for washing cars adds silence...but also buffers the pain...I have a leather paddle that is hard leather on one side and a lambs wool kind of material on the other side..leather side is very noisy...lambs wolly kinda thingy side is pretty thuddy silent..if that makes any sense at all!
Yes this is the best place for your question..and welcome ~~smile~~
I am sure you will get more answers that make more sense ...

 

[serijules]

Loopy!

The loopy is very stingy, very effective, and very silent...question is, can YOU be silent <grin>

I love the loopy johnny. Here is a link to my own.

Loopy

Purchased at Adam and Gillians.

 

[Netzach]

We live in a thin walled apartment, and I have recently become an enthusiast for the cane.

The cane is silent, my slave has a harder time being quiet.

Good caning articles on sexuality.org

 

[Pixie]

Loopy!

The loopy is very stingy, very effective, and very silent...question is, can YOU be silent <grin>

I love the loopy johnny. Here is a link to my own.

Loopy

Purchased at Adam and Gillians.

That looks, ummm...interesting.


edited to add: He seems to like that one.

 

[Nola]

Thanks!

phace5 - Glad you've found something that works for you, but it doesn't sound like what I'm looking for.

Shadowsdream - I like the sound of the paddle you mentioned, do you know if its available for purchase online?

serijules - Wow, I'm really intrigued by the loopy. Think I'll have to show that one to hubby and see what he thinks.

Netzach - I love reading stories that involve caning, but I think its probably a bit beyond where I want to go just yet. But thanks for the advice.


As for me keeping silent, I guess we could try a gag.


Thanks for all the input.

Nola

 

[phace5]

A woman on the radio once used ....

Stinging nettles on her slave.

 

[Nola]

phace5 - again, not really what I'm looking for, but thanks!

 

[lark sparrow]

Have you thought about expanding into other areas?

I love spanking as well, and live in an apartment with thin walls. I will usually turn up music to muffle the other noise somewhat but that might not work if you need to keep an ear out for children.

How about experimenting with some bondage?

Another suggestion would be candlewax - utterly silent but still delivers a good range of sensation, and can be combined with ice.

Clothespins attached to tender parts are also noiseless.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Thanks!

phace5 - Glad you've found something that works for you, but it doesn't sound like what I'm looking for.

Shadowsdream - I like the sound of the paddle you mentioned, do you know if its available for purchase online?

serijules - Wow, I'm really intrigued by the loopy. Think I'll have to show that one to hubby and see what he thinks.

Netzach - I love reading stories that involve caning, but I think its probably a bit beyond where I want to go just yet. But thanks for the advice.


As for me keeping silent, I guess we could try a gag.


Thanks for all the input.

Nola

http://www.floggerz.com/lpaddle.html

# 566 Standard Paddle w/Fur Pad

you should be able to find this paddle at most online shops...

 

[WillowPuss]

You could actually make your own one of these.

Just get a cheap wooden hairbrush and remove the bristles. Stick some wadding over the side that used to have the bristles. Cover it all with a scrap of fake fur fabric.

I made one for about £1.00 (so about $1.60)

 

[Pixie]

That's a good idea

 

[Nola]

Have you thought about expanding into other areas?

I love spanking as well, and live in an apartment with thin walls. I will usually turn up music to muffle the other noise somewhat but that might not work if you need to keep an ear out for children.

How about experimenting with some bondage?

Another suggestion would be candlewax - utterly silent but still delivers a good range of sensation, and can be combined with ice.

Clothespins attached to tender parts are also noiseless.

Hi lark sparrow,

Thanks for your reply. We have experimented with some bondage in the past...might be time to try it out again. Haven't tried anything with candlewax/ice or clothespins, but those are great ideas.

Nola

 

[Nola]

Re: Re: Thanks!

http://www.floggerz.com/lpaddle.html

# 566 Standard Paddle w/Fur Pad

you should be able to find this paddle at most online shops...

Thank you Shadowsdream, I'll look into it.

Nola

 

[Nola]

You could actually make your own one of these.

Just get a cheap wooden hairbrush and remove the bristles. Stick some wadding over the side that used to have the bristles. Cover it all with a scrap of fake fur fabric.

I made one for about £1.00 (so about $1.60)

That might be worth a try. Thanks!


Nola

 

[bunny bondage]

my condo is surrounded by other condos, and the walls are very thin. sadly, i still haven't figured out a way to be spanked quietly, or be quiet when i'm getting spanked, so my neighbors get quite an audio show! and then they get a repeat when we plug the video camera into the t.v. and do the instant replay thing!

but here's my 2 cents anyway.

pinching doesn't make noise, and it can leave QUITE a sting. biting, too. mmm...biting. and scratching! that's another fun one. also, the bristle side of a hairbrush doesn't make that much noise, but it's VERY painful. mmm! hope this is of some help! ^_^

 

[Nola]

pinching doesn't make noise, and it can leave QUITE a sting. biting, too. mmm...biting. and scratching! that's another fun one. also, the bristle side of a hairbrush doesn't make that much noise, but it's VERY painful. mmm! hope this is of some help! ^_^

Hi bunny bondage,

You've given me even more to consider. Thanks!

Like your sig.



Nola

 

[MystiqDrgn]

We live in a thin walled apartment, and I have recently become an enthusiast for the cane.

The cane is silent, my slave has a harder time being quiet.

Good caning articles on sexuality.org

Canes have got to be the best for quiet play. You still get what you need and the top gets what they need. Try two and use them as drum sticks. The strikes aren't hard but hard enough. Hope it helps ~M~

 

[bunny bondage]

so nora, have you tried anything yet? ya GOTTA let us know how it goes!

 

[Richard49]

a wooden spoon

 

[pierced_boy]

Try

single or double cord cats, need to be used with caution and care. We have one with ten tails which is noisy if used with energy but wrap most of the tails round your hand and leave only one or two out and it gains in intensity and looses most of its sound.

Like Lark Sparrow said move into other forms of sensation/D/s play. Teeth and fingernails are always available and Oh so quiet to use. Clamps and pegs and needles and ........

We have kids too and it can be a challenge to go places you crave at times

H

 

[Nola]

so nora, have you tried anything yet? ya GOTTA let us know how it goes!

We did play around with some pinching and biting last night, even a bit of spanking. Unfortunately, our youngest decided it would be a good time to be up for 40 minutes in the middle of the night. Sigh. The joys of parenthood.

Nola

 

[Nola]

a wooden spoon

Richard49,

How quiet is a wooden spoon? I would think it might be similar to the hand or hairbrush? Hmmm...more things to try.


Nola

 

[Nola]

Re: Try

single or double cord cats, need to be used with caution and care. We have one with ten tails which is noisy if used with energy but wrap most of the tails round your hand and leave only one or two out and it gains in intensity and looses most of its sound.

Like Lark Sparrow said move into other forms of sensation/D/s play. Teeth and fingernails are always available and Oh so quiet to use. Clamps and pegs and needles and ........

We have kids too and it can be a challenge to go places you crave at times

H

pierced_boy,

Thanks for the ideas. We haven't looked into the cats yet. I'll look around. We are playing around with some of the other sensation things too.

I love my kids dearly but sometimes I miss the spontaneity of our pre-kid days.

Nola